So Julie states Being misgendered can have a huge impact on somebody and their personal wellbeing. It can also be a form of abuse
But not a crime. Not illegal or against any law. Not within police remit then.
Now at one time, I would have been sympathetic to the pronouns thing, without any further context. But quite honestly I’m completely over it now.
If you are experiencing extreme reactions to someone referring to you by your sex then you need help. And however unkind deliberate misgendering might be, it is not abuse. It’s just not. Calling it abuse just to escalate the opportunity for an extreme response and crack down in return, to control language, seems to be the intention.