It is often distressing to find yourself in an argument with people when you agree with them on a lot of things, or agreeing with people who you have often thought are dangerously wrong on certain issues.
But that’s reality and ought not to be distressing. The expectation that it should be any other way is madness.
I’m not feeling grrreat about agreeing with Paglia on Breitbart - despite it being a completely reasonable position wherever it’s given space - but I’ll get over it.