At an atheist convention a female speaker complained that a male attendee cornered her in the hotel lift at 4am. This incident generated discussion about sexism and harassment in the atheist/skeptic community. Dawkins decided that it was no big deal because much worse things happen to women in Islamic countries.
He wrote this rhetorical letter as a reaction to the debate
“Dear Muslima
Stop whining, will you. Yes, yes, I know you had your genitals mutilated with a razor blade, and… yawn… don’t tell me yet again, I know you aren’t allowed to drive a car, and you can’t leave the house without a male relative, and your husband is allowed to beat you, and you’ll be stoned to death if you commit adultery. But stop whining, will you. Think of the suffering your poor American sisters have to put up with.
Similarly, Rebecca’s feeling that the man’s proposition was ‘creepy’ was her own interpretation of his behaviour, presumably not his. She was probably offended to about the same extent as I am offended if a man gets into an elevator with me chewing gum. But he does me no physical damage and I simply grin and bear it until either I or he gets out of the elevator”
There is something quite disturbing about a man who flippantly refers to FGM in an attempt to stop a woman complaining about something.
Whenever men remind women how much worse other women have it elsewhere, and how we should be grateful, it always sounds a bit like a veiled threat.