General transwidows and GC stuff

[Transwidow987]

I'm new here and I don't know if this is ok or welcome. I hope so. I don't think this belongs in the escape thread.
I am wondering if any one else has found out or realized things about your ex after the divorce when you are no longer speaking to him. I am realizing some heavy things and I feel like I don't have anyone to talk to about it.

Hi Transwodow987 do you feel able to share what you’ve learned?

Hi 987 and welcome to FWR.

There is an established support thread for transwidows so I'm not sure diluting the conversation is going to get you many takers. Women will want to post where they already feel safe and comfortable.

Also: this forum is plagued by fishing trips. If you solicit the experiences of others before sharing your own (and I'm not suggesting you share anything if you are uncomfortable) you are also unlikely to get many takers.

We also have relationships board which you might want to look at for more general issues with exes.

Sorry to sound like a Debbie Downer about your thread - best wishes to you.

Do you think I should post it on the escape thread? I thought that was more for women who are trying to get out?

I thought a lot of people on the escape thread have escaped.
Why don't you pop over and see.

I was accused of being a troll so I am mostly lurking now. I wish everyone the best of luck in getting out.

I’m confused OP - I didn’t see anyone suggest you were a troll? That would have been hurtful for a genuine poster. People are wary on this board (and that thread especially) because hostile visitors show up nearly every day. It’s not personal.

The Relationships board might be good option too.

It was in another thread and via PM. It's fine, I have other support. I think there is a subtle cultural difference between transwidows in the UK and in the US that is quite interesting. I didn't take it personally. Apparently I asked too many questions and was talking about sex too much? Whatever the reason, several people on the escape thread thought I was a troll and complained to the OP. It's fine.