Thanks SpartacusAutisticus and others who have highlighted that this is an actual tool required by people to make life less stressful.
I had no idea.
I despair of the sleight of hand, deceit, manipulation, whatever you want to call it, that takes this stuff and leverages it to actually enhance the power that is already there.
Fortunately, more are beginning to see through the subversion the manipulation, and are becoming less afraid to speak.
A definite plus to all this is what one learns, along the way. This tool, is one such thing.
A whole heap of stuff about feminism, is another. Safeguarding protocols, statistics, feminist history, politics, how to lie and get away with it, biology, facts and figures about intersex, how misogyny works, how prevalent sexism is, the different types of argument and how to detect them, narcissism, etc, The list is endless.
Women have often said that, on mumsnet, every day is a school day. It genuinely is.
And, more than anything, it totally brings it home as to why certain men do not, under any circumstances, like women talking together, en mass.