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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

FWS tribute to Magdalen

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SusanSmithFWS · 13/09/2019 11:09

We've just posted the following on our Twitter account:

It is with the deepest sorrow that we announce that our friend and sister Magdalen Berns passed away this morning at 9.20. To those closest to her, Magdalen was a daughter, a sister, a partner and a friend but she was also an inspiration to very many more.

In her last weeks she exhorted those who remain to keep on fighting. Magdalen asked that women stand up, speak out and be brave. The greater our number, the greater our strength. She also wanted us to remember that our fight is with those who would trash our rights and not with each other. As Nicole Jones who was Magdalen’s partner and a co-founder of our group said at the Lesbian strength march last weekend:

Talking to her recently this is what she emphasises: the need to speak out. The need for women to work together, to stop infighting, and move forward. There is no time for apprehension. In thread once, someone told Magdalen that they were afraid to share her videos and speak out but that they were grateful that she did. Magdalen, with all her usual tact, responded: “I’m not your fucking martyr.”

Magdalen started her YouTube because no-one else else was saying the simple truths she expressed - that women had rights, that sexuality was not something that could be identified into or out of, and that these rights would not be undermined. The sheer numbers of those in agreement highlight that her instinct was not wrong. She only ever wanted to inspire other women to stand up.

Nicole has said that Magdalen always told her that she never wanted to be put on a pedestal for her work - she simply wanted to open the door. The best way to honour her legacy is not to preserve her as a martyr, but to take up her mantle. Put yourselves out there and do as she did.

We believe that Magdalen’s monument should and can be “more lasting than bronze”, a part of which will never die but this is best achieved with action. Today, honour Magdalen as she would wish - with deeds, not words.

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OhHolyJesus · 13/09/2019 11:16

That's beautiful and terribly sad. I was just suggesting on the other thread if there was something we could do to honour her, and yes it needs to be with deeds, not (just) words.

I'll be donating to some feminist causes and putting some time and energy into being more Magdalen.

Love and strength to her family and friends.

Imalldonethanks · 13/09/2019 11:19

I'm so sorry to hear she's died.
Sending best wishes to her family, and to echo the poster above - I shall also try to be More Magdalen.

Popchyk · 13/09/2019 11:23

That is a beautiful tribute.

"The best way to honour her legacy is not to preserve her as a martyr, but to take up her mantle. Put yourselves out there and do as she did".

Noted.

Branleuse · 13/09/2019 11:26

im so sad. I am glad she was surrounded by her loved ones.

LangCleg · 13/09/2019 11:26

Beautiful tribute.

And she was right: the fight continues.

Rest in power, Magdalen, and we will try to ensure that you one day rest in peace.

OvaHere · 13/09/2019 11:29

Lovely tribute, thank you.

terryleather · 13/09/2019 11:31

A fitting tribute.

Condolences to Magdalen's family and friends.

She burned bloody brightly while she was here for what turned out to be such a horribly short time.

Be More Magdalen - seems an entirely fitting way to honour her memory.

OhHolyJesus · 13/09/2019 11:31

You are right Lang you are exactly right.

WeBuiltCisCityOnSexistRoles · 13/09/2019 11:33

It's desperately sad and desperately unfair.

I shall be out this weekend with leaflets/stickers.

2BthatUnnoticed · 13/09/2019 14:58

Powerful tribute for a powerful woman. I didn’t realise Magdalen had a partner, I hope she has the comfort of love around her at this time 💚

stumbledin · 13/09/2019 14:58

So sad to read this.

Here is a link to the speech made at Lesbian Strength in tribute to Magdalen forwomen.scot/08/09/2019/lesbian-strength-march/

RIP

BeMoreMagdalen · 13/09/2019 15:22

In honour of Magdalen, always. Bring it on.

Staffori · 13/09/2019 16:13

From Maria Mac:

"It is the experiences, the relationships and everything we strive to achieve that serve to give life meaning and purpose and it is through those experiences, relationships and achievements that we live on in the hearts and minds of others long after our death.

Magdalen will live on through her work as well as in the precious individual memories each of us has of her.

Goodnight, sister, and thank you."

www.peaktrans.org/magdalen-berns-rip/

HumberElla · 13/09/2019 16:25

A fitting tribute. Action will be my tribute in return.

For Magdalen and all of us.

Fallingirl · 13/09/2019 16:32

Nothing to add, that hasn’t already been said.

What is really lodged in my brain now, is her words that there are scarier things in the world, referring to her own situation, than being called silly names.

HandsOffMyRights · 13/09/2019 16:54

Thank you for sharing that beautiful tribute.
Please pass on my thoughts to her loved ones.

She has taught me to stand up for what's right, to battle on and in her memory I will keep on. For her. For me. For my children. For females everywhere.

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testing987654321 · 13/09/2019 16:59

I went for this on my Facebook and shared the women's place uk picture saying "it's not hate to speak the truth".

"Incredibly sad that Magdalen Berns has died. It was through her videos that I learned that lesbians are considered transphobic if they only want to date women. As she said “lesbians don’t have penises”. Bizarrely that’s now considered a controversial statement."

I think sharing posts about her and her videos is a good way of raising awareness to family and friends. I suspect everyone here has done this already, but if not be brave, be more Magdalen.

scalliondays · 13/09/2019 19:35

Lots of moving tributes and I also will try to 'Be more Magdalen'.

HillRunner · 13/09/2019 19:43

This is so desperately sad, and that is a moving tribute. I will try to be more Magdalen.

WrathoSWhlttIeKIop · 13/09/2019 19:54

Today has been an odd sort of day.
But the sad news has brought with it an extra source of strength.

Be more magdalen.

DoctorTwo · 13/09/2019 20:16

Thank you for this thread @SusanSmithFWS. Magdalen was a force of nature and is going to be massively missed. I've used her words to peak trans many people, so I'm going to keep on doing that in her memory, starting tomorrow at a Pokemon Go event.

My condolences to her family and friends, and to Nicole.

Fullglassofwine · 13/09/2019 21:35

Such a moving tribute for an amazing woman. Sadly I am one of those people Magdalen would be (quite rightly) pissed at. I am too frightened to come out as gender critical on Social media as I would be ousted from my sport and I would likely lose my job. I have even name changed for this post.

However I try to speak up in person where I can, I will keep thinking 'be more Magdalen' whenever I am worried about saying 'the wrong thing' and remember that whenever I do speak up, no one so far had ever disagreed with the GC stance.

CountFosco · 13/09/2019 21:55

Condolences to Magdalen's partner and family, to lose someones whose star has burned so bright must be very hard. She has had such an influence in too short a life. I shall endeavour to be more Magdalen.

Voice0fReason · 13/09/2019 22:27

So sad to lose such an amazing woman so young.
She left her mark and will never be forgotten.

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