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LTB? The domestic abuse survivors living in hostels for years and years.

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HelenaDove · 13/09/2019 02:53

inews.co.uk/opinion/comment/housing-crisis-temporary-accommodation-london-hostels-camden-council/

‘I had to live in one room with my daughter for 11 years’
i speaks to homeless families who are being housed in hostels in London 'temporarily' - only to be left there for years

England’s Lane Residence is in the London borough of Camden, a stone’s throw from some of the capital’s wealthiest and most exclusive neighbourhoods. Belsize Park sits just minutes away in one direction, Hampstead and Primrose Hill in others.

At first glance, you might not notice the 165-room building. Red brick, with white framed windows and surrounded by shiny black wrought iron railings, it doesn’t resemble what you might think of as temporary accommodation. While not technically a hostel in legal terms, the conditions inside comprise of small, self-contained studio units where homeless families are being housed for as long as 11 years, which is anything but “temporary”.

England faces a social housing shortage and, as a result, the number of families in temporary accommodation is rising. The most recent quarterly statistics recorded 83,700 households – including 124,490 children – in temporary accommodation at the end of December 2018. That’s a 74 per cent increase since December 2010. Sixty eight per cent of these households were placed by London local authorities

In the summer of 2008, 45 year-old Khadija*, a part time cleaner from Camden, was fleeing domestic violence. As a result she, like so many women who flee abusive partners but cannot afford the prices in the private rented sector, became homeless. “I applied as homeless to Camden Council in June that year,” she tells i. “My daughter was only four and we were given a room at England’s Lane.”

The unit they were given comprised of a bedroom, bathroom and a small kitchenette. The rooms were originally designed for single nurses working at the nearby Royal Free hospital. They were never designed for families

Khadija’s daughter is now 15. “The Council accepted a duty to house me, but I was not told how long this would take,” she says. “I never could have expected I would spend 11 years living in that room.” She has recently been moved to a small flat owned by a housing association. “This is definitely an improvement, but I have been told that it is still only temporary. I don’t know how long I am going to have to live here, and how long it is going to be before my daughter finally has a settled home. She is starting her GCSEs and stability is important for her. She’s lived almost her entire life in temporary accommodation. We just want a place that we can call home.”

Being moved into temporary accommodation has been found to have a serious impact on people’s mental and physical health. A report by Shelter concluded it can trigger depression, an increase in visits to doctors and hospitals because residents become more vulnerable to diseases like bronchitis and tuberculosis, as well as falling levels of self esteem.

Khadija is not alone. Siobhan*, 30, has lived at England’s Lane for nine years. She was moved here when she was three months pregnant with her son, who is now eight years old.

“I was told I would only be here a couple of months,” she tells i. “I was pregnant, I was gullible, I was desperate. Now I’m depressed and miserable. I’m 30 and I’m no longer with my son’s dad because it wasn’t a good relationship. But I can’t have a partner here. I share a bedroom with my son, the kitchen is in that bedroom and guests have to leave by 11pm. I feel like I’m 14. I pay my rent, I should be able to have someone to stay over but I can’t. My life is on hold.”

I also spoke to another single mother in her forties, Imelda* a former part-time language teacher who was placed at Levine and Abbotts Hostel with her two children in late 2012. At the time, her son was nine and her daughter was one.

Seven years later, she is still there. Unlike Khadija, Imelda’s room does not have an en-suite bathroom and her family must go up a flight of stairs if they wish to use the toilet.

A home without stigma
“Being here makes me feel guilty as a parent,” she says. “I feel like I’m not providing for my children. All I want is a home where I can invite the kids’ friends over for play dates without the stigma of being looked down on for living in a hostel.”

Beyond the repercussions to family life and the health of mothers and their children, housing people in this way is costly. Derek Bernardi is a senior solicitor-advocate at the Camden Community Law Centre. He notes that Khadija’s room was £256.80 a week. Over 11 years, that’s £146.889.60. As she was working, earning £820 a month as a cleaner, she was liable to pay £388.57 a month out of her own wages, which is almost half of what she earned.

More than this, though, Bernardi is currently representing 15 clients, all of whom have children – some with disabilities – and have been placed in temporary accommodation in the borough between 2008 and 2013 for what he deems to be an “unlawful” period of time. So far, he has sent provisional letters on their behalf to the Council and would like to see a judicial review of their cases.

“All of my clients are in the same situation,” he tells i. “They have spent long periods of time in temporary accommodation with no end in sight.”

Bernardi says the case he is pursuing against the Council is simple: “[That] Camden has failed to rehouse these families within a reasonable amount of time, that they have failed to comply with their legal duties in relation to the needs of children and people with disabilities, and that their policies constitute unlawful discrimination against the homeless.

He says Camden’s housing policies are partly to blame. “Because homeless families are restricted from getting points under almost all categories of Camden’s bidding system (for example, they are not entitled to points for overcrowding, fleeing violence, disrepair, being a care leaver etc) it would literally take them at least 20 to 40 years to build up enough points to successfully bid for a council property.”

“Our clients’ children are being born and raised in homeless hostel-type accommodation,” he adds. “They have nowhere to do their homework, or to invite their friends over, or simply to have their own private space. Unless something is done about it, then there will be no end to this disgraceful situation

Camden Council has a lease on England’s Lane. England’s Lane has now been sold to a private developer. Residents have been told they will be moved out by 2021, but where they will be rehoused remains to be seen.

For the growing number of families living in temporary accommodation, what Imelda calls the “soul-destroying” limbo can last for years. With a diminished social housing stock, all they can do is hold on.

Camden Council told i: “In 2004 there were more than 2,000 households in temporary accommodation placed by Camden – we’ve now reduced this number to 500.

“The Council’s allocation scheme was introduced in 2016 following extensive public consultation. We work hard to ensure that we are providing the best possible advice and services to people in housing need at all times

“We do not consider it appropriate to make comments about individual cases which are still in the pre-action stage, and which may become the subject of legal proceedings.”

Councillor Meric Apak, Cabinet Member for Better Homes, said: “Our first priority always is to prevent homelessness and we have been leaders in this throughout London and beyond. We have a robust Housing Allocations policy. However, due to the extremely high demand for our limited supply of social housing we are not able to guarantee all homeless households an offer of a council home. When this is not possible, we provide suitable alternative accommodation.

“We are always available to have conversations to help families move on to longer term, settled housing from the available supply, regardless of how long they have been living in temporary accommodation.”

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HelenaDove · 13/09/2019 02:57

*This article has been amended on 12/09 to reflect that Camden Council do not own England’s Lane but leases it. It has now been sold to a private developer.

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FredaFrogspawn · 13/09/2019 03:29

England’s Lane is one of the more expensive addresses in North London. I could never afford to live there although we both work in professional jobs in London. I wonder why they don’t sell it and buy whole flats for the residents for the same cost on the outskirts of the city.

That said, I don’t understand why people in temporary accommodation aren’t awarded more points on the social housing bidding system.

YobaOljazUwaque · 13/09/2019 03:49

Thanks for sharing that OP..

I am shocked that the council has deliberately created this issue by setting up the points system so that those in a hostel can't get points for being inadequately housed or fleeing domestic violence. Emergency temporary accommodation obviously ought to have a high turnover of residents so whatever points someone has on entry to the hostel should be 'kept', with the hostel being only a temporary refuge for the (should be) short time it takes for an appropriate long term option to be available. The while policy needs judicial review. Good on the lawyer who is pushing this through.

plantlife · 13/09/2019 13:41

I wish there was honestly about it all. I feel victim blamed. I'm in a relationship that I've been told is still abusive. I want to believe it isn't. Partly because it's so hard emotionally but I'm also frightened of being without a safe home. I definitely feel safer living with him, what I know what to expect, and he's being nice at the moment, then unknown dangers. I've been posting on another thread and there's been lovely kind people. I feel so guilty because it seems like I'm being difficult and not taking advice but I'm terrified of not being safe. I have medical issues that I desperately need to resolve so I can fend for myself and survive if I leave. I need to be well enough to go far away but my doctor has made everything much much worse. There's other complaints about this doctor, it's not just me, but the damage is done. I've written about it all under different names. I'm battling them now as well as the home situation with him.

plantlife · 13/09/2019 14:34

This is about a women's aid report just published, no woman turned away. How lots of women end up homeless after leaving abuse.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/education-49661575

www.womensaid.org.uk/pregnant-women-child-survivors-left-sleeping-rough-current-system-fails/

HelenaDove · 13/09/2019 17:14

@plantlife im so sorry to hear this. Its like we are going backwards.

This is the same council that pulled that publicity stunt at the Chalcots two weeks after Grenfell.

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plantlife · 13/09/2019 20:10

Thank you Helena. Ive seen some of your posts and people like you who care and try to highlight things like this give me faith back, not all people are horrible. I'm trying to stay strong and get through this. It helps speaking out tbh.

Justme1234567 · 13/09/2019 21:31

This happened to me. I left the relationship after the violence and sexual violence was too much I knew he would kill me. I then got attacked outside my house, and had to be moved the day I left hospital. I was put 15 miles away from where I lived, which is understandable and obviously I only cared about being safe. However I was put in a b&b where it was a room with a kitchenette in the corner with one hob, it was fine for 2 months because I was just thankful I was safe but after I’d been through what I’d been through I didn’t really need to be somewhere where I was constantly harassed by drug users and alcoholics, the damp in the room made my asthma so bad and had to constantly let staff into my room as the boiler was in there so no privacy, had to leave my dog elsewhere as they didn’t take into account dog, and all I could think was my life would be so much better if I stayed, which is crazy, I lost everything, my job, my friends, my family and a stable house, which took an immense toll on my mental health. It’s just so sad that survivors of domestic abuse actually have to question if it was worth leaving.

Plantlife · 14/09/2019 00:37

I'm so sorry. Have you got away from that now to a proper safe home with your dog? I'm sorry if not. I'm so scared of a place like that. I hope it's better for you now. It's terrifying thinking about losing everything.

HelenaDove · 14/09/2019 00:44

Jesus wept I dont know what to say. There is a pinned thread which ive tagged you into @plantlife Someone from Shelter is doing a chat next week and thanks for your lovely words Thanks

Justme the final line of your post says it all Thanks

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Plantlife · 14/09/2019 01:51

Helena, thank you so much.

MoleSmokes · 14/09/2019 03:08

Plantlife Flowers and Justme1234567 Flowers

My heart goes out to you both!

Thank you for posting this HelenaDove - it is sickening!

Justme1234567 · 14/09/2019 13:45

@plantlife I am so lucky to live in a studio flat right now but only because on a whim I called the council and asked what my position is on the waiting list, and I was advised I’d be waiting at least another 2 years and I said ok so I have a dog that I can’t leave any longer as it’s been a year and the guy said he would speak to someone and they would get back to me and luckily they called me back a week later and said they have an empty studio flat where I can have my dog, however they are knocking the flats I'm in now down next year, so I’m still in limbo because I might have to go back to a b&b but right now I’m safe and comfortable till then. But just think about your safety and you mental wellbeing, you have to do what is best for you, and it’s not being in an abusive relationship, you can do this on your own just make sure if you do get moved away you go straight for support, straight to your gp. I’m in London so there’s no housing, so if you are not it could be a difference experience, you can do this Xx

Orangepearl · 16/09/2019 22:26

Should be posted on relationships board to make people aware.

Ineedacupofteadesperately · 16/09/2019 23:16

This is a very important thread I think, not only for Relationships but for FWR. It's a feminist issue if the support systems are so inadequate / non-existent that women (and their children) face an abusive relationship or being homeless / forced to live in very inadequate temporary accommodation. It's appalling and an impossible choice.

A homeless woman (homeless because of DV) who lived in a city near me died recently and it affected me greatly. I don't know what the answer is, I wish I did, but I think we need to hear more about these stories. I don't understand why there isn't more outrage about families living in such inadequate situations for such long periods of time.

plantlife · 18/09/2019 13:43

I'm guessing it won't be a sticky because, understandably, MN won't want to put women off leaving. It's difficult because I feel it won't get better if no-one speaks out.

I hope I haven't put anyone off leaving. Its still worth trying. There is still help out there, its just sometimes a battle to get it. I guess maybe some other women are like me, unconsciously using fear of housing as an excuse to stay.

I'm so sorry justme. It's so good you and your dog are safe for now but so awful that you're still have that uncertainty. I really really hope it works out ok for you. I'm too scared to publically say where I am (whilst I'm still in the situation) but it's the same as for you. No housing. I wouldn't feel safe staying here though, that's why I'm desperate to be physically well enough to travel. I'm trying to stay positive and keep trying to get myself into s better situation.

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HelenaDove · 20/09/2019 02:20

www.lag.org.uk/article/206799/domestic-abuse-and-housing

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SuperLoudPoppingAction · 20/09/2019 07:15

There have been women's org's (or maybe just one) who've managed to buy their own properties and form housing associations to ensure the rent stays with them but also that the properties are available for women who need them.
I think charities owning property themselves is a really good idea.

They might need a lot of donations to manage, but sometimes a bequest in a will can help.

Womens aids changing over to getting money for refuge accommodation from homelessness funding and then putting women back into the homelessness system isn't the gold standard of support really.

When refuges started up, council housing was so much more available and less stigmatized.

I was in council housing when my ex left and due to their policies at the time I was the main tenant and he didn't need to be evicted or anything when he decided he wanted to come back. It allowed me to get back on my feet (which took 3 years to get a job and another 2 to be ready to buy a house) and the impact that has had on me and my children has been immense.

SuperLoudPoppingAction · 20/09/2019 07:17

www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/domestic-abuse-evict-social-landlords-guide-a9080946.html quite a bit of coverage (and local policy work) in Scotland recently

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