Yes, the issue is not that the bulk of humanity actually believes all this shit.
The issue is that AWAs have cleverly targeted and focused on those people and groups in powerful positions so that, whatever the wider public know to be true, the policies of those in power will be to privilege those who promote these ideas.
That's what Lang's Institutional Capture thread was trying to highlight.
And this is why it's instructive to understand the relative position of women in our society - because no one ever really notices rights and protections being incrementally stripped away from the groups no one really cares about. When this issue makes headlines, it's always framed 'trans rights'. The fact that the losers are women and girls is denied, dismissed and often just flat out not even noticed. It's at best the secondary point to the trans dramatics that make good copy.
No one in the general public really believes men can actually be any kind of woman. But they do not see, because of our cultural bias, why this would be an issue for women and girls, so if it comes on their radar, they are content to leave it in the hands of authorities - which have already been captured by those actively working against us.
And that's why, when things happen which show the real impact, you get shock and anger from Jo Public who had no idea, and a whole lot of frantic obfuscation from the AWAs and their useful idiots to keep a lid on it.
Conclusion - if patriarchy is simply the overwhelming bias in society that defaults to male interests, and almost completely overlooks the interests of women, the trans movement is the epitome of patriarchy in action.