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Important note for women, specially in Bromley area:
Last night i went to the Bickley.
I was sitting on a table in the garden and 2 guys sat right next to us.
They were probably in their mid 30s. One wearing a light blue polo T-shirt and beige trousers. The other wearing a tight white shirt.
The guy wearing the blue polo takes the phone out and started taking pictures of 2 girls while they’re having some drinks. Zooming on their breasts, and then sending that to a WhatsApp chat.
I couldn’t even say anything as I was so in shock about what I just witnessed.
Few minutes later the guy takes the phone out again and starts showing the friend more breasts pictures.
I decided to approach him and asked if he knows the girls he just zoomed and photographed. He says no and then I tell him I think is wrong he’s taking pictures of the girls bodies without their permission.
He denies what I just saw with my own eyes, and the friend started getting loud and aggressive with me stating I should mind my own business and leave.
We have some tension and I decided the best thing to do is to inform the manager and leave as it’s very hard to make people understand when they don’t want to understand.
I am sharing this experience for 2 reasons:
1: not sure about the legality of taking those pictures. It might be legal (or not) but definitely is not ethical. And judging their reaction, they were aware of it.
I would feel incredibly uncomfortable and vulnerable if a stranger was taking pictures of me in that way. If you would feel the same way, keep an eye if in the area.
2: the guy taking the pictures had a little girl as a screensaver. The friend went to full panic mood. That makes me think they probably have some wives waiting them at home. And if I was one of them I would like to find out.
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