I am not unsympathetic. However we ended up paying for private orthopedic surgery for my daughter, as she was in real pain, could not sleep, and spent two months in the sort of painkillers you are only supposed to take for 10 days. The NHS wait list was four years.
You only need to watch programmes such as embarrassing bodies to see people who having to wait longer for treatment they really need.
There is a lot of money flowing into trans support. Plus Stonewall et al and nice sidelines in training and policy advice. To be honest I am not totally surprised if these finds are not making their way to people who really need it. And on a personal level I wonder if there is evidence that surgery always solves problems associated with dysphoria. (The unwillingness to allow proper unbiased research in this field is an issue.)
At the end of the day it is about priorities. Cancer, people in pain, people with major mobility or disfigurement problems would be my surgery priorities. If trans health is to be a higher priority the trans community need to support proper evidence based research.