Just wanted to say thanks and sorry

[whoami24601]

I'm a long time lurker. I just wanted to start a thread to say thank you to all you wonderful women here who have opened my eyes to so many things. I keep seeing on threads from others that it's just a small group of people who are GC and the majority are pro- trans. I can't help but get annoyed at myself when that happens. I wish I was as brave as some of you! I wish I could be out there protesting and letting people know what's happening. But I'm scared. I can't be the only one.

We are here though, reading and learning and thinking and questioning. Most people I know don't believe TWAW but they're either oblivious to what's happening, or too scared to
speak out.

So thank you for educating me and speaking for me. I owe you all!

I dont think you need to apologise. Most of us on here are anonymous because like you we a scared. We are scared to lose our jobs and livelihoods. I take heart that more and more people seem to be speaking out. More awareness is being raised.

Welcome OP! No apology needed. I like you am anonymous, fear the consequences of speaking out and wish I felt able to show more public support for those that do. I work in a place that has made it very clear in its policies that my views will risk my employment. I can’t afford to lose my job with multiple dependents.

Lurking is learning though. I can also gently ask questions, fill in consultations, write to MPs, donate and send messages of support privately to those who are working to defend our rights. Don’t be a stranger now you’re here!

Yes, same here OP.
Ive found it quite upsetting that I wouldn't actually have been a suffragette had I lived back then, as I'm too scared of peoples disapproval.

I have tried talking to my closest friends, I think one gets it, the other works with teens and thinks I don't understand the world today and how open young people are to diversity.
Personally I don't think she understands the ways in which women are thrown under the bus in her accepting and progressive world, but what can you do, except persevere and resist.

What a lovely post OP, although no need to say sorry I think the tide is starting to turn, I hope so.

I hope so 2B. I've noticed a recurring theme of the argument is that people are reading and seeing the 'right' way, you guys are only a few and no one shares your view etc. I can't do much but I can tell you you're not alone. We're quiet but we're here

This recent thread may cheer you up: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3647116-Hello-Lurkers You’re definitely not alone.

Thanks boatyard I did see that thread but only lurked it's good to know there's lots of people doing a little bit each though

There are lots of ways to support - writing on important issues, govt consultations, letters to mps, etc, can potentially have a big impact and don't involve broadcasting your views on social media. (I think social media really offers a skewed picture of contemp society).