AriadneAufNaxoswould you have the same attitude toward the people doing the sex work? Interested in your position on it
"Sex work" is legal in the UK so the idea that undercover police are posing as punters to arrest prostitutes is nonsense unless the prostitutes are actively soliciting in public - which is illegal and rightly so in my opinion.Being a pimp or a brothel keeper is illegal - and rightly so.
So far as prostitutes who actively promote the lie that sex "work" is work; or those who spout on about how empowering it is and how much money they make ; or those who sneer at supposedly sad little people whose jobs are "burger flipping" or cleaning offices ; or the Belle du Jours and the Laura Lees pushing these lies; or the madams and facilitators- yes I have contempt for them as well.
Idon’t think it’s looked down upon that much for a man to hire a sex worker but I might be wrong, I’m not a man
I have utter contempt for any man who uses a prostitute. I have discussed it with my son and husband who feel the same. I would be very surprised if friends or colleagues were relaxed about this.
but it seems like the whole man sleeps around he’s a player, woman sleeps around she’s a slut
You are confusing 2 completely different issues. What consenting adults, who are not cheating on someone else or infected with an STD get up to willingly (and that means without the exchange of money) in private and which does not involve "sex games goes wrong " injury is no concern of mine. If people want to have safe, consensual, mutually enjoyable sex, no matter how casual the relationship that is up to them. I have no judgement to make.
I see you refer to "sex worker" and "sex work". I refuse to prettify prostitution by using that term.
For women who have been trafficked I would say something like "women trafficked into prostitution". If it's put forward as a positive choice- then I would use "prostitute".