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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Study finds high rates of autism in transgender and non-binary population

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Reallybadidea · 19/07/2019 20:49

Another study confirming the association of trans and ASD. I thought the quotes from the author were very interesting, particularly his use of the phrase "born female" as opposed to "assigned female at birth".

eurekalert.org/pub_releases/2019-07/aru-sft071619.php

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VioletLeaf · 20/07/2019 13:32

I'm ashamed that I am unable to just blanket accept it the way other people think I should.

Goosefoot · 20/07/2019 14:40

I have been worried about this with regard to my very woke friend. Her daughter, 8, is autistic and she's recently started doing a lot of advocacy about that, and she's really bought into the whole trans narrative. I think she is likely autistic herself really.

She posted a thing just recently from a local LGBT org about how autistic persons are more likely to be gender diverse, and it's presented in such a way as to be completely positive about it, because you know, its all about diversity and neurodiversity! She suggested in her comments it was because autistic people didn't feel bound by social rules! and that maybe there was a link with the genetic causes of both.

I really worry for her little girl. The whole idea that being 'gender diverse" seems to mean wearing clothes culture associated with the opposite sex kind of infuriates me. In the end though I suggested the reasons other autistic women I know have said they felt that way, particularly discomfort with the physicality of puberty and menstruation, and rigidity around social roles.

Oddly there has been zero response.

KCM99 · 20/07/2019 14:51

@VioletLeaf I'm sure everybody is grand about it until it's THEIR child.

The media is desperately trying to normalise this phenomenon and accusing people who resist/object as hateful. Just look at all the programming on tv about it and all over YouTube.

It's so insidious.

WomanBornNotWorn · 20/07/2019 16:51

I wonder if the WHO's announcement that it is not a mental illness will one day be reversed.

Thingybob · 20/07/2019 18:39

I was just looking at GIDS statistics taken from this paper published in the last few days.

adc.bmj.com/content/103/7/631.full?ijkey=HsMwyZDRtsKu83z&keytype=ref

It states that "Around 35% of referred young people present with moderate to severe autistic traits"

I believe they use DSM criteria for diagnosing these autistic traits which has 3 levels of severity: L1, requiring support, L2, requiring substantial support, L3, requiring very substantial support.

Why do their statistics only count moderate (L2) and severe (L3) and not L1s?

What is the real instance of ASDs among those referred 50%, 60%, 70%?

FriarTuck · 20/07/2019 18:47

I believe the high number of girls referred to gd services who may also have asd and so do not conforming to gender stereotypes and also find it very hard to socialise with other girls and so feel they don't fit in.
This ^^ In an autistic brain it can be 'does not feel like fits in with other girls' + 'prefers masculine clothes due to more comfortable fit' = 'must really be male'. Luckily when I was younger being trans wasn't really a thing so I just didn't fit in and then came out as gay (with the more 'butch' side from the clothing and having short hair for ease). I bet there are a lot of autistic kids being shoved into a trans identity when they really need someone telling them that a, they have autism and b, it's fine to not fit in to gender stereotypes

123bananas · 20/07/2019 19:00

My youngest is autistic and delayed developmentally. He doesn't really understand the distinction between boys and girls when looking at pictures or people just like he can't always understand other people's emotions. He also doesn't always understand where someone else starts and he ends in that if someone else is hurt or in trouble he also thinks it is happening to him. For a while he said he was a girl, because he has sisters and he thought he was the same as them. It took reinforcing to explain to him that he is a boy and why. It is a neurodevelopmental disorder which can affect understanding of issues around biological sex and societal identities. These children and young people are vulnerable to manipulation by social pressure, misinformation, people with an agenda and pharmaceutical companies and doctors (who have a financial interest) in them who can see the £££ in medicating and experimenting wholesale on children and young people without adequate research into the long term effects. Then they will make more money from treating the same side effects in years to come.

InsulatedCup · 20/07/2019 23:26

Violet - you are not alone. My 21 DD ASD has identified as trans for 3 years now.
My gut feeling is that it won't last forever but she will always have our love and support whatever happens. At the moment I'm just glad we are in a holding pattern and that the waiting list for the GID clinic is really long...

WaitingForAGovernment · 21/07/2019 15:16

A few months ago I saw a post from a FB friend - she was telling the world how she had explained to her primary-aged, ASD child that if they didn’t want to be one gender, they could go to the doctor and be made the opposite gender. It was very much a ‘I need to avoid my young DC misgendering anyone and here’s how I went about it’ post. It made me really worry for the child - I’m sure the DC now believes a doctor can change their sex.

She’s a very black and white thinker with a history of rows (online and offline) so I saw no point in starting an argument. But it seems we are in a world where parents are indoctrinating their own, vulnerable, DC with the idea that it’s possible (even easy, usual) to change sex. While I’m happy for adults to believe what they want, this seems to me to be encouraging otherwise oblivious children to consider changing sex, risking a lifetime of medical intervention and disappointment when the results aren’t what they hoped for.

TemporaryPermanent · 21/07/2019 15:37

35% autistic (minimum) at referral?? that's amazing.

Kilbranan · 21/07/2019 17:49

I’d also be interested to see the total number of kids with ASD rather than just moderate to severe. I imagine it must be more than half of all those referred which is pretty horrifying when you consider the likely loss of fertility should they proceed with puberty blockers
I read about yet another GIDS clinician voicing their concerns about the referral process and the fact they are pretty much guaranteed to go along with what the child is saying even if there is clear evidence of trauma /ASD /family issues Sad

KatvonHostileExtremist · 25/07/2019 14:44

www.latimes.com/opinion/story/2019-07-18/doctor-transgender-child-lgbtq-healthcare?fbclid=IwAR0xBkyLpZoqNkliPYlMRb3Qr-qP1r9JElio6kVxqHw8v21AHgqot0DkbAE

No signs of being trans at all, until at 13 the child declared it. Kid did have sensory and social issues.

A WHOLE 15 months later mum's got the kid on hormones.

This has been a miraculous cure for all the kid's problems, apparently. She's writing a book I think. Naturally.

haggistramp · 26/07/2019 10:30

Is there a way to find out what schools are teaching kids about transgender. I'm drumming into ds head that boys are boys and girls are girls, regardless what you do and you cant change sex. But he is asd and takes what he learns at school as law. I'm in Scotland and is is a big worry of mine.

Sickoffamilydrama · 26/07/2019 11:02

As others have said I bet the 35% is much higher especially in the girls.
My DD has ASD, some would call it mild although in theory it doesn't work like that you either have ASD or don't if you have it some people show much more outward manifestations/symptoms of it than others, anyway I'm digressing.

The only reason my DD has a diagnosis is because there's a strong history of ASD in my DH family and as we are familiar with the symptoms of ASD we recognised them in her did some research around ASD in girls and recognised more characteristics of ASD then pursued a diagnosis.

Without our knowledge of ASD we could have dismissed some of her behaviour as being naughty and other as quirkyness it's so easy for girls and higher functioning autistics to go undiagnosed.

SansaClegane · 26/07/2019 11:20

I can see how this is happening.
I'm a late diagnosed woman with ASD. I always wanted to be a boy when I was young- I could tell I was different from the girls; and I really really didn't understand the social intricacies between girls. So I chose to play football with the boys instead - this involved less talking and was a lot more straightforward. I had short hair as I wasn't bothered about hair care / styles, and preferred to wear trousers and T-shirts to dresses. Have always disliked pink and blue was my favourite colour, never played with dolls but had action figures instead.
When my period started (I was only 11) I was terrified and hid it from my mum for a good year or so. I couldn't understand what was going on with my body and hated it. Even worse when my boobs started to grow and the boys started treating me differently. I really wanted it all to stop. I think if I had been a tween now, I'd have done anything to stop puberty and remain a 'boy'...
FWIW I don't regret being a woman now! But I think at that age, such a fundamental change is terrifying for autistic girls and no wonder they want to stop it. Also the feeling different from others and grasping at any explanation for it.

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