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Ending "Rough Sex" defences - Harriet Harman is taking action

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WomanDaresTo · 19/07/2019 18:02

Hello. I have some very hopeful news on ending the successful use of "rough sex" as a defence to the death or injury of women and girls (with 56 killed, and many more injured, in the UK)

Harriet and Mark Garnier, the local MP for Natalie Connolly and her family, have published a piece today on rough sex defences. They propose to add to the Domestic Abuse Bill to explicitly consider these cases.

"For years, men got away with murder claiming that “she asked for it”. Cynically known amongst barristers as the “nagging and shagging defence” this excuse for violent men was shut down only as recently as 2009. We now have the modern version of “she was asking for it”. It’s time we shut that down too and we can by adding it to the Domestic Abuse Bill."

www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/rough-sex-murder-harriet-harman_uk_5d309e09e4b020cd9940533c

I'm THRILLED to see this, and once we understand more on the proposals, will make sure we organise to give this the best chance of success. (lots of caveats to come - e.g. it's a long way from law yet, and it won't apply to Scotland- but still thrilled)

Flowers to all of you who've helped We Can't Consent To This so far.

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BobTheDuvet · 15/10/2019 21:02

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bd67th · 17/10/2019 10:39

Duvet You are right, but one small semantic shift needed: "I don't want to live in a world where a woman puts her life in a man's hands every time she has sex."

Name the problem.

BobTheDuvet · 17/10/2019 15:14

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