Chatting with dd(12) tonight and explaining to her that lesbians are being told they need to accept lady dick (I didn't use this phrase though!) and if not they are Transphobes and that men who say they are women are calling themselves lesbians but are heterosexually attracted. I was given her best WTF face and then she moved quickly on as she does to ask me this:
Why are witches viewed as bad but wizards are seen as good?
Answer: the patriarchy. But it's really made me think of how women throughout history have been persecuted and oppressed.
We saw a re-enactment of Joan of Arc's execution at Warwick castle and it reduced me to tears. It was a real eye opener for me to see it acted out rather than just read the history. But yes, it all boils down to the oppression of women as it was ever thus.
I bought her a couple of age appropriate feminist books a while ago and am doing my best to raise her as a feminist with excellent boundaries.
How did this all start? When did men decide they were in charge?