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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Radio 4 now - Surrogacy/Gay couples

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twelvecolourfulbirds · 16/07/2019 09:33

On now. Supposedly focussing on the surrogates rather than the gay couples.

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thefirstmrsdewinter · 16/07/2019 22:09

I will ponder further what I think about women donating eggs which have been harvested as a “by-product” (horrible term) of their own fertility treatment. I believe they're often offered a discount on their own treatment to do so (but can't rememeber where I read that, Object probably). That seems coercive and not the absolute epitome of 'we're all consenting adults'.
cabbage yes sorry, that's just a trailer. I keep meaning to find out if the film could be bought and shown here. It seems to only have been shown in the US. www.eggsploitation.com/showings.htm

umbel · 16/07/2019 22:22

thefirstmrsdewinter Lesbian couples are a large source of donor eggs for that exact reason. Many lesbians who seek assistance to become pregnant (in the form of donor sperm) are persuaded to undergo full IVF treatment instead of intra-uterine insemination, offered a discounted cycle if they donate eggs. They are particularly attractive as donors because they are likely to be young, with no fertility issues. IVF is sold to them as having a higher success rate.

thefirstmrsdewinter · 16/07/2019 22:27

umbel that's so sinister, I don't understand how it's allowed. The fertility industry is like the wild west.

OhHolyJesus · 17/07/2019 22:21

Just to let you know I had a reply from the law commission on the surrogacy consultation and there will be another London event (one was held on 12th July, did anyone go or even hear about this?) in mid-Sept - keep an eye out.

SonicVersusGynaephobia · 17/07/2019 22:39

I wonder how often the egg donor is 20, white, tall, blonde with an ivy league college education and the surrogate is poor and not white.

I find commercial surrogacy abhorrent, misogynistic and exploitative in the same way prostitution is.

sakura184 · 17/07/2019 23:44

thefirstmrsdewinter Lesbian couples are a large source of donor eggs for that exact reason. Many lesbians who seek assistance to become pregnant (in the form of donor sperm) are persuaded to undergo full IVF treatment instead of intra-uterine insemination, offered a discounted cycle if they donate eggs. They are particularly attractive as donors because they are likely to be young, with no fertility issues. IVF is sold to them as having a higher success rate.

Omg I never knew this. The lesbians I know used the trusty turkey baster method

LassOfFyvie · 17/07/2019 23:57

it looks as though only “stakeholders” (i.e. surrogates and adopters) are being asked for their views?

No, not at all. It's just almost impossible to complete. I've tried twice. I have a partially completed and saved download.

FannyCann · 18/07/2019 00:03

@ByGrabtharsHammarWhatASaving

Let me know if you are going to Cardiff - I will be in a rush to get there but it would be great to walk in with a fellow stakeholder!

DM when you know?

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