I came across this on YouTube and found it interesting:
It's called 'Do All Trans People Think The Same?' and the format is that six people are asked questions, stand along an agree/disagree scale, and then discuss. Of course the answer is that they don't all think the same, but some of the comments were quite revealing.
The only one to think that surgery is important is the middle-aged late-transitioner.
A couple, interestingly, spoke about gender roles being harmful. One transman thinks that gender roles are important as they were helped to know that they were trans by knowing they didn't fit the feminine role.
There were some alarming comments about sexual orientation, including one essentially saying that being gay or straight wasn't about being attracted to people with penises or vaginas but to men or women (using the genderist definition of those words). Another thought it was better to just be attracted to 'human beings'. To me, this really demonstrates the incompatibility of L and G with a certain strand of T ideology that is being heavily pushed at the moment.