what we are seeing in the media as a whole is the outcome of the backlash against women's liberation in the 70s, particularly the takeover by queer politics in universities.
First of all they dismantled women's studies and set up women's studies. That is the origins of how sex started to be talked about as gender (and prostitution became sex work). ie choice.
I remember being really furious and feeling helpless as feminism was replaced by gender studies, feminist truths were reclassified as hopelessly old fashioned, and getting your tits out for the lads was a fun, glamorous and empowering choice for girls.
Feminism even seemed to go out of fashion for lesbians, with the new generation distancing themselves from us old-style, 'man-hating' dykes, proclaiming themselves queer, and choosing BDSM over fuddy duddy persuits such as female consciousness raising, setting up women's shelters, feminist libraries and lesbian retirement homes.
I too could only watch in utter dismay as feminist studies were colonised by gender studies. Those of us who recognised the backlash for what it was, as it happened, and who tried to stand against it, found ourselves increasingly isolated and frustrated.
All the knowledge accumulated by feminists was never disproved, it was just sidelined, made to seem hopelessly old fashioned, irrelevant and unnecessary in the new, fun, post feminist world. Where women had all the equality they could possibly need, free at last to express themselves by having plastic surgery (for themselves though, absolutely nothing to do with pandering to the male gaze) and spending vast sums on empowering items like shoes and handbags.
It was a horrible, depressing time. Having to stand helplessly and watch women's power being sidelined and trivialised. Yet never for a single moment even in my wildest most dystopian nightmares did I imagine a time when women-hating men would be able to declare themselves female and force their way into every protected space women had managed to claw out for themselves. Or that it would happen with the full support of all political parties. Including a party calling itself the Women's Equality Party ( a party where a room full of members would cheer heartily at the suggestion that every female MP being replaced by a male who identified as a woman would bring about true equality for women in parliament).
I dunno. My dad used to get apoplectic at the sight of lads wearing earrings back in the early 70's. Why can't we older women have something equally trivial to get worked up over? Why do we have to live in such interesting times?