When the truth offends, we lie and lie until we can no longer remember it is even there, but it is still there.
These are two lines from the amazing dramatisation of Chernobyl, which I have just finished watching. Obviously the character is talking about something in a different context, but these lines resonated so much with me about what is happening at the moment, that I just wanted to post them.
I know there has been lots of discussion already about the almost totalitarian nature of some of the language used in the transgender debate. When I was listening to the podcast linked to the Chernobyl series, they were talking about how in the Soviet Union people were terrified to speak out about anything that went against the party line for fear of losing their jobs and being alienated from their society. Familiar isn't it?
I want trans people to be able to live their lives in peace, free from fear of violence or discrimination. But this shouldn't have to involve lying, to involve repeating something you know isn't true. People use certain pronouns to be kind, people play along with 'TWAW' because they think it's the right thing to do. But even the wokest of the woke, in the back of their mind, must know the truth:
Humans cannot change sex. Men will never be women. Girls will never be boys. Anything that deviates from this is a lie, isn't it?
Even if we lie, the truth is still always there. What will be the debt to pay?