This is where we diverge. I don't see the prevalence of gender theory as being necessarily more sinister or mysterious than any other illogical, harmful idea that takes hold - various religions, quack medicines, the anti-vaxx movement.
I would argue that it is more dangerous because it is an attack on logic, rationality and thinking. I am writing an article about this at the moment, too long to post here
I agree with some of what you say about many people preferring a magical view of the world to a materialistic one (I see the appeal myself). But that's precisely why I don't think we have to see this as a conspiracy.
I agree that we should not believe in conspiracies unless there is evidence of them. I also think that people have a natural tendency to believe in corruption and conspiracies rather than in say, incompetence and everything being overwhelmingly complicated.
It's caught on because it appeals to subconscious beliefs and biases that we probably all have to some degree: the belief in mind/body dualism; deep-seated, subconscious sexism; political tribalism.
This I have no argument with, well said in fact
There's no secret council directing this. It's an idea that appeals to a lot of people.
I cannot claim that there is one secret council, I believe there is evidence of at least one, but there may be many.
And, we're living at a time when people use marketing-type strategies to push political messages, and marketing by-passes debate and critical argument, and aims at emotions and biases. This goes for a LOT of political messages, both good and bad.
Here is the crux of the matter. We live in a "post truth" world and powerful people are using psychology and marketing-type strategies to influence elections, undermine democracy and asset strip entire nations.
This has been well reported in this excellent book which I recommend
www.amazon.co.uk/Nothing-True-Everything-Possible-Surreal/dp/1610394550?tag=mumsnetforu03-21
It is a beautifully written account, from a former insider (someone who worked within the system and reported his observations very eloquently), with many insights into how the system works