The piont is that in terms of actual votes Hilary Clinton won.
She lost because Americans who seem to think they can teach and impose (via war) "democracy" on others, actually have undemocratic voting system.
So the US and consequently the rest of the world have had a looser who actual didn't win taking decisions that are impacting on all of us.
So unless and until Americans get their act together and dismantle to Electoral College they will continue to be a country where the loser because the President.
The more significant point is probably that more people through not voting showed that they didn't want either Clinton or Trump.
But did misogyny play a part. Yes you saw it everyday, including young women potentially democratic voters turning against HC as much for her age as her sex.
Not forgetting Susan Sarandon who thought a good dose of right wing reactionarism would make us appreciate liberal democracy. I wonder if the young children separated from their mothers are glad that their suffering is "teaching" us all a lesson.
So despite sexism and ageism HC won, but she was robbed by a weighted system put in place to protect southern slave owning states.
I think in fact, although I am not a supporter, that Theresa May has suffered far more sexism both from her fellow Tories and the media, who have been relentless is characterising her as a problem female, who doesn't cry in the performative way that public figures are now meant to , and worst of all went about Brexit as some dreary task she had to perform, so that all the fanatics could scream at her for not honouring their personal vision of Brexit.
And in less that a week, as confirmed by the EU, what is dubbed HER deal, but is in fact their deal, is the only one we are going to get. But the response from MPs of all parties, which I suspect they would not have ventured into, and that clown Bercow wouldn't have meddled in the way he did, which was to deride her was totally down to sexism.