TeeJay, but that is exactly my point.
Lyon gave their main stadium for the first leg of the European League semi final and got an attendance typical of a mens Premier League game - even though it was played on Easter Sunday in a Catholic country. Plus allowed BBC to have the TV rights.
Yet the return game will be played at Kingsmeadow, a local authority ground Chelsea borrow from AFC Wimbledon's youth team.
You say the big matches played in big stadia. Can you actually name a bigger Club game in British women's football - ever. Britain is not the strongest country in womens football by some margin. There has been far better support in places like France Japan and the US. Our national team is significantly over performing at the moment, as is Chelsea in this European competition.
(Wembley as a national venue hosts a range of league and non league cup finals - that's its job. Going to Wembley when your small town club reaches a cup final is a long standing tradition. And the women's one gets a good crowd.)
Kingsmeadows capacity is 4,850 with 2,265 seats. That is not a big stadium for a match this size.
And it would not be so bad if the BBC were prepared to televise it. But no.
DD suggests the only silver lining is that the French team will be seriously surprised that they are playing a match this size on what feels like a training ground, and that might put them off.
Also why is it that women seem so reluctant to push for equality for women, and so quick to make excuses. This is a pretty cut and dried example. Big match. The French can treat it properly. We can't.