What a shit show.
I completely agree.
No one, but no one, can write about this with any degree of neutrality and satisfy the TRAs.
It has to be brave, stunning, marginalised, agonising, and every other negative, yet ultimately positive, adjective you can think of.
I remember once reading the bare bones of a play (I think). Written from the perspective of a transwoman, married to a man. Who after years of marriage found out that their wife used to be a man.
The denouement, the ultimate reconciliation and begging for forgiveness for being a bit
that they were a bit cross about not being told (because they didn't notice, apparently, despite epic and long lasting sex sessions), was the epitome of implausibility.
It was like the Cinderella complex on steroids, with a goodly dose of LSD.
This is the paradox. You can't write about this in the way transactivists demand and, at the same time, make it something that people actually want to read.