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Caroline Farrow Support Thread

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GeordieGenes · 01/04/2019 23:05

Caroline, I am honestly almost in tears looking at your Twitter feed tonight. Sad

Her kids have been doxxed by the good doctor.

She is continuing to receive harassment from TRAs. Someone has just sent a pizza to her house.

We all need to get behind her. They think she's a weaker target because of her Catholic views, I'm sure. Let's get on Twitter and report everyone that is sending her abuse.

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JessicaWakefieldSVH · 03/04/2019 11:46

What is happening Confused

Flowers Caroline, I hope you’re ok. This must be really hard to know how to handle.

Datun · 03/04/2019 11:46

Sad bastards.

Carowiththegoodhair · 03/04/2019 11:47

Fenton sent me emails under the name of Jamie Harrison claiming to be a transwoman based in the US, but they are really called Fenton.

They talk about their vagina which is like mine, sadly describe the physical violence and threats they have been subjected to, which I condemn, before telling me about the shirts they are going to have made of me & put them on billboards in Surrey. They also claim to have a famous religious person wear them on YouTube.

They say that the other abusive man has been rude to them on FB and are very cross that he sent me a pizza.

Fenton/Florence sent me DMs saying my dad and children would also be featured.

Time to call the bouncy ambulance.

SharkBastard · 03/04/2019 11:47

Wonder if Harrop will turn this on Caroline too? Anyhoo, best ignored.

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Datun · 03/04/2019 11:47

I believe what is happening is that one of Caroline Farrow's abusers has come on this thread and is signing their posts so she knows they are who they are.

They are abusing her and women who support her, in plain sight. They won't last.

littlbrowndog · 03/04/2019 11:49

Jeez what an idiot.

Seen some stuff but a wee saddo raj
All the lols 😂 😂😂😂

Haha idiot

JessicaWakefieldSVH · 03/04/2019 11:49

Don’t @ me.

NotBadConsidering · 03/04/2019 11:49

Brew? And more Flowers Caro.

Just ongoing abuse on here. All for everyone to see.

RedToothBrush · 03/04/2019 11:50

What recourse do you have when someone in the US starts stalking you, sending you creepy emails and threatening to make cartoons of your dad, your children and put them on T-shirts and billboards?

I had an online friend, who I've since lost contact with, stalked by someone who lived in another country a long time ago.

The problem is you can not go to law enforcers in the UK as its about whether they have broken the law where they live, not where you are. If they have stuff online which is hosted in the UK then you can challenge that with providers legay in the UK.

It's therefore a lot more difficult to persue. But not impossible. It's very much more specialised and time-consuming.

It's a issue which highlights a grey area and how power lies not with countries but social media platforms who have no proper oversight nor transparency. Hence the idea of the Internet as the wild west.

It's likely to change in the next few years but in the short term it's not particularly helpful to you. One of the problems is precisely being people doing this feel empowered because they feel they are beyond the reach of the law and untouchable.

As I say they can be pursued in some cases, so this invincibly isn't strictly true, but the barriers to prosecution make it a lot more likely.

I think the main advice my friend got in the end was to cease engagement and change her online habits completely from British police which was unhelpful to say the least.

Her experience was maybe 10 years ago now. It was an eye opener in how abuse online works.

What's going on here looks to be very similar in pattern.

It's regarded as 'normal' and acceptable behaviour in many online circles. And even outright funny to do as its 'just trolling'.

I know the effect it had on my friend. She had phonecalls to her work, messages sent to family and friends and graphic images (including photos hopped ones of herself) shared online.

Its one reason off Mumsnet I don't use female usernames, have my social media locked down and ultimately became a MN user.

It's shocking. And it's only when you see it happening that you realise how bad it is and how frightening it is for victims.

SophoclesTheFox · 03/04/2019 11:50

Despicable.

Hey stalkers, here’s a hint for you. If you’re trying to twist a narrative to say that woman that you’re harassing is in fact harassing you, then showing up like this ruins the gaslighting effect that you’re going for, you know? Because you have clearly followed her here to carry it on you dim witted chumps.

Datun · 03/04/2019 11:50

It's an incredibly useful demonstration, Caroline. One that is instantly available to 12,000,000 people's view

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Datun · 03/04/2019 11:53

@Carowiththegoodhair I have sent no emails, more lies by you
I only upload cartoons on Twitter and Instagram

I'm afraid I, and every other woman, is going to have to channel their inner Mandy Rice Davies here. 🤣

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SophoclesTheFox · 03/04/2019 11:54

I’m not your buddy 🤣

SpartacusAutisticusAHF · 03/04/2019 11:56

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Carowiththegoodhair · 03/04/2019 11:56

No of course you sent me no emails Fenton, course you didn’t. Aaaargh. I need to stop arguing with narcissists.

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sackrifice · 03/04/2019 11:56

They don't even care that everyone can see them doing it.

I repeat last night's prayer.

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littlbrowndog · 03/04/2019 11:56

That true. Sophocles 😆😆😆

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Datun · 03/04/2019 11:57

Dear lord. Creeps, pervs, narcissists and bullies. All clamouring to access women's spaces. Including this one now.

NeighbourhoodAttackKitten · 03/04/2019 11:57

@SophoclesTheFox ok pal

Why can't people stop bullying the poor doctor and innocent trans woman

do you not realise that as a result we get attacked in the street and even abused or harmed, no, you do not care, yet if it happens to you, you could be outraged

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