"This isn't a female problem, it's a cyclist problem. "
Dear Lord, the OP is about a woman having to have surgery on her vulva because of her bike, and you think it's not a female problem??!
Have you done any long bike rides?
There are lots and lots of issues relating to cycling and women, such as the fact that men are physically stronger and are more likely to take dominant positions on the road, whereas women often get run over by left-turning trucks and such like.
Specifically on this issue:
lovelybike.blogspot.com/2011/04/on-female-anatomy-and-bicycle-saddles.html
"In the lead up to London 2012 [Olympics], with the UK Institute of Sport, we developed a special saddle for Victoria Pendleton, who had been suffering from saddle issues that were having a negative impact on her performance. After the Games, we wondered how big a problem it was and whether we had only uncovered the tip of the iceberg. We put together a team and decided to interview riders as part of a qualitative study. The findings were staggering, 100% of the riders we interviewed were having problems but, with a male doctor, physio and predominately male coaching staff, didn’t feel comfortable in mentioning it."
www.stevehoggbikefitting.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/sensitive_issues.pdf
As noted in the first article, they came out with a new saddle to address the fact of 100% of Olympic female cyclists suffering genital pain, but it didn't solve the problem.
Male cyclists do not face remotely the same issues because men are not sitting on their genitals when cycling.