dangerous not exaggerated. In the past year she has been hospitalised with Hb levels of 56, 67 and 63.
She spends months with her clotting factors being fine. She could have the surgery then. Her gastro consultant wants her to have it. Gynae-surgery wanted her to have it. But they cant get her on the list as it isn't emergent or part of the cancer pathway national targets.
Like I said I work on the ward where she would have this, I know that if her coags are too deranged they cant operate full stop, but there are periods of time where she could if someone actually listed her.
I've seen this sort of stuff professionally as well as personally. Not just in gynae, but breast surgeries. I can understand because I know how badly the NHS is struggling but as it is struggling I really can't find the sympathy for people who want surgery on demand purely for cosmetic reasons whilst operating under the false illusion that it'll improve their mental health (suicide rates don't actually go down following transition surgery)