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The Lessons of Leaving Neverland/Parallels to Our Times

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GeorgeFayne · 15/03/2019 23:54

I just finished watching the documentary Leaving Neverland and found it incredibly compelling and disturbing. I can't get it off my mind. It's bigger than just Michael Jackson and even child sexual abuse. I see some clear parallels to several ongoing cultural issues and thought I'd share.

The narrative that was presented years ago and, regrettably, that I even somewhat bought into was the idea that Michael Jackson was just an innocent childlike figure who had been deprived of his own childhood. The phrase "child's brain trapped in a man's body" was even used (sound familiar?) and sadly many of us fell for it. As he paraded and flaunted his victims in front of the whole world, there was very little questioning or outcry. We bought the story and we're buying it again. Children are being abused right in front of us, (did you see the 4th Wave Now Tweets?), and the narrative is...let it happen. Transitioning children with gender dysphoria at a young age is the loving and compassionate course of action. To withhold treatment would be cruel and damaging. The gaslighting by TRAs has been incredibly successful here in the US (and Canada).

Also, I found it interesting that both mothers featured in the documentary had moments where they did question what was happening, but actively talked themselves out of their concern. I have always felt that mothers (not all, but many) have an instinctual drive to protect their children, an inherent gut sense when their offspring are threatened or in danger. When we talk ourselves down and try to ignore or rationalize the alarms, our children are at risk. Mothers are speaking out, concerned about men in women's spaces, men participating in women's sports, the scourge of porn and the sex industry, and the growing tide of ROGD. We are being told there is nothing to fear, that these are irrational fears, and that we should trust in our leaders, physicians, and communities to protect our children.

Don't buy it, speak up. Don't allow more people to be groomed into accepting the idea that woman is just an identity or that children can actually change sex with blockers and hormones. Don't let the men in your life be seduced by pornography.
We must destroy this toxic narrative and flood our world with the cleansing sunlight of TRUTH.

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hoodathunkit · 17/03/2019 12:44

For context

Surviving R Kelly

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Bloomerpool · 19/03/2019 02:11

ComputerSaysMo

I'm in the US. I watched the UK conduct its historical abuse investigations in the wake of Savile, still ongoing I believe. It was, and is, a bit of a mess, and its former leader is now your PM. We are in a far worse scenario here. We have yet to have our own Savile moment. There are no authorities to whom I could officially report specifically about my own case without putting myself in danger. That doesn't mean nothing is being done, or no one in authority knows, but I hold out no hope at all, as long as power continues to operate here as it has done since I was a child.

Bloomerpool · 19/03/2019 03:17

hoodathunkit

I am very interested to hear your opinion of the organisation that calls itself the International Society for the Study of Trauma and Dissociation (ISSTD).

The ISSTD is one of a small handful of organizations that has advocated for trafficking and CSA survivors, and educates about the sequelae of trauma and treatment protocols. It is a worthy organization doing the best it can do right now, as we are still in the infancy of understanding how trauma affects people over the long term. It is made up of a broad swath of clinicians and researchers.

I'm not sure what you mean by "red flags". I've witnessed a number of cases where victims, after entering therapy, were assaulted and threatened by family/perpetrators if they didn't denounce their therapists. I've witnessed victims without adequate intimate partner and/or social support back away from their claims of abuse, and try to blame their therapists. I've witnessed far too many victims struggling to heal in bad therapeutic situations. No single case can be held out as emblematic of the work of a therapist, an organization, or an approach to CSA or trafficking or trauma as a whole. As I said in my OP, the devil's in the hidden details.

hoodathunkit · 19/03/2019 08:12

Bloomerpool

Thank you for your reply

I would love to hear your opinion on the following individuals who are significantly involved in the ISSTD

Valerie Sinason

Rachel C Thomas

Bessel van der Kolk

Colin Ross

Ellen Lacter

Bennet Braun

Phil Mollon

There are others, but these will do for now.

I would also love to know your thoughts about the allegations of psychiatric abuse at the Castlewood Treatment Centre in which vulnerable patients with eating disorders claim that they were alienated from their families and brainwashed into falsely believing that they were survivors of incest and satanic ritual abuse.

Also I am interested in learning your opinion on the use of "body psychotherapy", "energy psychotherapy" and "internal family systems" therapy in treating vulnerable people.

Looking forward to your reply

hoodathunkit · 19/03/2019 10:21

Bloomerpool

I am also interested in any views or opinions you might have in the role of Ellen Lacter in the murder of an autistic child by his deluded mother?

www.rawstory.com/2016/02/activist-blames-quack-satanic-abuse-psychology-after-paranoid-mom-murders-her-autistic-son/

No hurry, whenever you have a moment

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