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#MothersOnMarriageCerts - legislation finally through Parliament!

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nameequality · 15/03/2019 19:23

Some of you may remember my campaign calling for Mother's Names to be allowed on Marriage Certificates alongside Father's Names. (Also see article in the Telegraph.

I was forced into when the papers reported as such claimed 'victory' on this campaign in August 2014 when David Cameron remember him announced that this would change. The problem has been that the Government would not allocate parliamentary time for a bill to resolve this.....

Over 4 and a half years later one of several private members bills covering this topic has finally despite Brexit issues made it through Parliament and will be signed by Royal Assent in the next few weeks.

The bill is a private member's bill by Tim Loughton (Conservative) and also contains provision to allow for opposite sex civil partnerships (should probably be worth a separate thread) and provisions to alter the way stillbirths are recorded (apologies I am not at all up on the detail of that aspect of the bill). Well done Tim Loughton for getting this through!

You can see a video of Tim talking about the bill on his twitter feed.

I'm delighted that this matter is finally going to be fixed!

Thank you to my family (and especially my lovely Mum Flowers) for support and encouragement with this campaign. Smile. Thank you to all the MNers who supported this - and without the FWR board I'd probably have never noticed and decided it was something to campaign about!

Special thanks to Caroline Lucus and her staff for all their support at the beginning of my campaign and for raising the profile of this in the HoC via various early day motions. Also thanks to Caroline Spelman who had a crucial role 'negotiating' between the Government and the Church of England.

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redexpat · 15/03/2019 19:25

Hurrah!

OhHolyJesus · 15/03/2019 19:28

Brilliant OP, another step in the right direction. Makes me want to get married all over again now! Well done!

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 15/03/2019 20:10

Very very well done!!

S1naidSucks · 15/03/2019 20:16

That’s shocking! I never knew about that, OP. Congratulations. You have removed another brick from the wall if misogyny. 💐

S1naidSucks · 15/03/2019 20:16

*of not if!

S1naidSucks · 15/03/2019 20:17

I’m going to say something to bump this, as it’s too important to disappear.

Bumpity bump!

BorsetshireBlew · 15/03/2019 20:18

Well done!
Tim is my MP. He's a proper Tory and I don't agree on a lot but he can be good on family and children's issues.

WisdomOfCrowds · 15/03/2019 20:22

This has honestly made my day. You bloody rock!!!!

Howzaboutye · 15/03/2019 20:34

Brilliant news!
Well done you!
Thank you from me and everyone coming after us

SurelyYoureJokingMrFeynman · 15/03/2019 20:45

Oh that is just brilliant, nameequality!

And what have you done?! What have you done?!

You realise your name will be praised for ever more by England & Wales family historians?

Really and truly, you have done more than change a few bits of paper. You have given women their rightful place in their own family dynasties for the first time ever in E&W.

This needs Wine and a fancy Cake and the whole place decked out in GlitterballGlitterballGlitterball.

You wonderful, wonderful, wonderful woman! ThanksThanksThanks

happydappy2 · 15/03/2019 20:48

congratulations-a fight worth pursuing

LumpySpacedPrincess · 15/03/2019 21:13

This is amazing news! I remember when it was dropped but I didn't know you were slogging away behind the scenes. Well done love, bloody well done.

ChattyLion · 15/03/2019 21:27

Fabulous! Star

truthisarevolutionaryact · 15/03/2019 21:47

What an achievement! Good news seems hard to come by sometimes but this is brilliant.

Well done Flowers Flowers Flowers

Badgerthebodger · 15/03/2019 21:51

Just brilliant! Well done you wonderful, tenacious, fantastic woman StarWineCakeFlowers what amazing, uplifting news Smile

OhamIreally · 17/03/2019 07:46

Well done! Thank you so much for your hard work on this. I remember having to give my father's name for my marriage certificate- a man who left when I was a baby, and my own mother, who had raised me single handed was invisible. It really rankled. Now I'm raising my own child single-handedly and if she marries then at least my name will be recorded. Thank you again, you wonderful woman.

caramelwaffle · 17/03/2019 07:55
Flowers
FlorenceLyons · 17/03/2019 12:06

That's brilliant news. Well done!

MrsTerryPratchett · 17/03/2019 13:42
Star
MrsFionaCharming · 17/03/2019 13:44

Brilliant!

I remember reading this in the news around the time DP and I got engaged, and I was so glad we’d get to have our mothers on our wedding certificate. As it is, the government has been so slow it’ll be almost 2 years from when we got engaged, and it’s not looking like it will be done in time. We’re having our mothers as our witnesses to make sure they’re represented.

Dockray · 17/03/2019 13:50

Bloody well done.

Wish I could marry DH again just to get our mothers on the certificate.

ValWiggin · 17/03/2019 14:45

Brilliant! Well done. Flowers

ComputerSaysMo · 18/03/2019 07:42

Great news. A small but significant step forward. Flowers Star

nameequality · 21/03/2019 22:40

Thanks all for your lovely comments. Flowers

I’m in The Telegraph today.

www.telegraph.co.uk/women/life/victory-last-won-campaign-put-mothers-names-marriage-certificates/amp/?__twitter_impression=true

It’s behind a paywall but I’m attaching a couple of extracts.

The original article was going to be longer —and was cut— Hmm and I’d hoped would include:

“Becoming a mother opened my eyes fully to sexism for several reasons - because of the fact that the work involved in mothering is not recognised by society, the lack of flexible jobs, the gender pay gap, the so called 'second-shift' of caring responsibility on top of paid work, the casual dismisal of mother's views and opinions and just having some time away from full time paid work to think through these things.

On Mumsnet I found a community of intelligent feminist women who speak eloquently about their lived experiences, hold politicians and those in power to account and agitate for women's rights and who supported my campaign and many other feminist campaigns wholeheartedly.”

#MothersOnMarriageCerts - legislation finally through Parliament!
#MothersOnMarriageCerts - legislation finally through Parliament!
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littlbrowndog · 21/03/2019 22:43

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