Still digesting this.
There's some significant good in it - I particularly like the passage
Masculinity is simply the way of being a man in the world, and is thus uniquely inflected by each individual personality.
Thus, when my husband, Michael, is caring for our children and cooking dinner, these are masculine acts, because they are being performed by a male human being.
Similarly, my femininity is exhibited as much in my assertiveness during a staff meeting as when I am breastfeeding—because it is the person who is gendered, not the act or trait. This embodied, personalist understanding of masculinity and femininity reaffirms the meaning of the sexed body, without collapsing cultural stereotypes into natural categories.
I'm not sure about some of it, but it's worth reading, and I think it's worth rolling some of these ideas around to see what stands up to scrutiny and what doesn't.
churchlife.nd.edu/2019/03/01/the-eclipse-of-sex-by-the-rise-of-gender/