Aren't there organisations also the ones that they call up when everyone else turns them away?if the dr tells them there's nothing wrong with them that will just push them to have these groups and their followers as the only source of support...
That is a very true and worrying statement. Maybe the question is similar to dealing with the issue of children with mental health problems who are looking at things like horrific pro-anorexia websites or awful images glorifying self-harm? The online plays a part in this, as is all the "training" going on by lobby groups. I do think doctors need to counter all the misinformation out there and say no when something is incorrect. I feel like there needs to be banners everywhere saying: humans cannot change sex! Healthcare professionals playing along with all the transactivist demands seems like the worse option, as it cements the idea that something about the child is pathological and can only be fixed with blocking natural puberty/development, a lifetime of cross-sex hormones, sterility, and surgery...
Once the child is an adult (18+), then they can choose what to do in terms of permanently altering their bodies. But I feel like this has to come from a place of genuinely informed consent, and if a person doesn't understand the reality of their immutable biological sex versus a psychological gender identity then I'd question their ability to comprehend what is going on. Crystal clear information using basic medical facts, not propaganda from lobby groups, is what is needed IMHO.
Perhaps just make sure our schools and homes are reinforcing gender stereotypes in the first place! Last time I was at DD’s school one of the older girls had a drill in her hand and was building something with the teachers in the entranceway. In overalls! Then another girl walked past in full goth outfit. Nobody bats an eye to either.
This does seem like the ideal solution 