Yes, I have to say it's an extremely depressing place to be, with a number of women vicar friends either ordained or training, who have swallowed the gubbins wholesale. Like, I love their ministry, and want to be their biggest cheerleaders, but there they are, merrily undermining the very feminist liberation consciousness that enabled them to break down barriers, and leaving their sisters in the dust.
But then tribalism is just as much of an issue in religion as it is in politics, and it seems to be the case that if you accept certain aspects of progressive theology, you have to choke down the lot.
I wish I could suggest another church - but tbh, this really is a case of following your conscience and callings. My answers won't be the same as yours, because likely my journey, from atheism to fundamentalism to CofE and finally Catholicism, isn't the same as yours. I guess my only advice can be - look for truth. I was helped enormously by an Eastern Orthodox priest who showed me that Christianity is a firm deposit of faith, faithfully handed down the ages. It has different character in different times and places, but there is a core that does not and cannot change, and our only responsibility is to be true to it, and hand it down as we were entrusted with it.