I don't really want to say too much as it may out me but I have worked in the sex industry for a long time (8 years). At the moment I am trying to wind it down and only do minor porn work. But previously I was earning the majority of my income from (in order) solo cams, chat line, visits, cams with others and live shows with other girls. My personal visits provided a fetish service that doesn't involve fucking however I know some clients did use other girls for that.
I have to say I am enraged by people claiming it is just another job. Others involved should know better than that. It is not. It is "Just work" to me and all the other women I personally knew with exception of some cam-only workers who think its a laugh. But to say they considered it the same as accountancy or cleaning? Of course not. I certainly do not.
All of my acquaintances started because they needed money. Even the ones who like the job started because of the money. And most if them quit or are planning to when they've saved enough. Girls who worked in brothels ALL had stories about aggressive and/or disgusting men. I've personally been locked in a guys house and one decided to strangle me with tights on and off for 10 minutes because I wouldn't 'upgrade'. He thought it was hilarious.
Talking to these men online/phone was certainly enlightening. They don't see you as a full human. They just do not. Not the really shitty ones who like awful degrading things, not the ones who used me specifally because I look very young and liked to elaborate on that, not even the ones who wanted to send gifts and worship me and "rescue " me. You are a thing. To wank over or in. That's all. It's completely not OK to pretend it's just like another job. I've had other jobs I disliked more but I think this was the worst overall.
I started because I was desperate for money while waiting for JSA. So no I wasn't enslaved or trafficked but I cant say i just decided on that career path because strange men masturbating over me is somehow empowering. Spoiler; it isnt and its wrecked my view of my body and of rekationships with men. I can't trust ANY of them now. If it's just like any other job then where would the incentive be to help people out of it? I see no specific support for people wanting to get out of stressful ,low paid work like retail...
So basicly, these sex positive "sex work is work" types can just do one. You could support women - support ME - without normalising men's shitty behaviour and warped attitudes towards women's bodies. I don't want prostitution criminalized but brothels should not be the norm. None of this should be the norm.