The statement 'basic healthcare that the rest of us take for granted' is simply not true. Or rather 'basic' can be really basic. (Though other times it is excellent - there is a lottery element.)
We ended up paying for DD to have surgery. She was on repeat prescriptions of the sort of painkillers that you are only supposed to take for 10 days and was barely getting any sleep. The wait list where she lived was 4 years. The private surgeon said his NHS wait list was 10 months and far too long for her to wait, as it would have meant a lifetime of restricted mobillity. Similarly we paid for my 89 year old mother to have private physio as she would never have got back on her feet had she waited 6 weeks for the NHS. (Tip £100 for 3 physio sessions was the best £100 she will have ever spent. Whilst DDs surgery was less than the cost of her repeating her University year, so again a sensible, if unwelcome, investment.)
The NHS is free so restricts demand through queuing. There is something really entitled about healthy young people, deciding that they are 'in the wrong body' so deciding to physically or chemically mutilate themselves, and to then expect to queue jump in front of seriously ill people. And even less acceptable when coupled with a refusal to accept that gender dysphora might be a (rare) mental health issue that needs to be diagnosed by a psychiatrist.
My guess is that the NHS accountants have been at work and calculated the lifelong cost of a teenager who has decided she is dysphoric, including the cost of treating side effects and/or any later decision to detransition. Plus perhaps
the cost of fertility treatment.
I suspect this is going to be the big difference between the US and UK. In the US, you get treatment is you pay (including those who opt for cheap drugs from the internet.) In the UK, society pays. Which gives society the right to set priorities, and to question a healthy fertile teenager who self-diagnoses, and then demands a massive share of the available resource.
My mums psychiatrist confirmed that a decision about 8 years ago to push to diagnose Alzheimer's was directly related to Aricept coming out of patent. Aricept delivered sufficient improvements in capacity that the savings in care costs outweighed the (now much reduced) drug cost.
Bloody Mermaids