Changing your name is an absolute faff of paperwork, but if you feel strongly enough about your choice I don’t think the opinions of others should factor into it all (except of those whose names you would intend to change along with yours, naturally).
I’m still using my first husband’s surname (double barrelled with my ‘maiden’ name) despite now being married to husband number three.
I don’t much like my father, but his is a generic surname, so not particularly objectionable. I probably wouldn’t have bothered to change my name at all on marriage but husband number 1 was born on another continent so we had to do all the gruelling home office immigration stuff and I didn’t want to give any unnecessary red flags that our marriage was a visa one - especially as it wasn’t.
By the time we divorced I had qualifications and the beginnings of a professional reputation under that name. I vaguely considered an entirely new name by deed poll (better than reverting to my father’s name alone, and I like my ex better than I like my dad so 🤷♀️)
The next two husband’s names are considerably less interesting than the first one, so I’ve not been tempted to change again due to a combination of the stuff posted above (professional rep/ mismatched paperwork), historical artefacts and genealogy, Feminism and vanity 😂
One thing I’m glad of, I gave my children combos of their dad’s name and my maiden name - we all have slightly different names and that can be a pain when making dental appointments etc, but we all have one part in common, connecting us to each other.
Husband’s two and three are both established in their careers and so had the same practical reasons for wanting to keep their names as I did - neither gave a rat’s ass that I neither took their names nor ditched husband number one’s name. I’ve gone by ‘Ms’ since I got my first proper bank account as a teenager, none of my husbands were bothered by that either.
We all get some hilarious surname combos on Xmas cards etc but I never correct anyone. As long as it’s correct on official documents and cheques, it’s no big deal to me.
If you do go for a change you will probably find you get all sorts of combos and old names etc. Life is easier if you don’t take it too seriously (I don’t like ‘Mrs Husbandfirstname Husbandsurname’ but it’s really only very elderly people who still do that and if you do mention it they invariably forget and revert to their old-fashioned default - Impresume it will be completely out of use in a few years time).