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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Mansplaining

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sundaygrief · 07/10/2018 17:23

Not sure if this is feminism or Brexit.... it is both

Just been completely mansplained by my brother & then shouted down for disagreeing with him. Topic was international trade agreements, him going on and on about an article he had read & how the draconian prohibitive EU trade barriers were now coming down which meant he would be able to buy a certain whiskey in the UK.

I tried to explain that wasn’t how it worked & that he could get those whiskeys in the UK already, it’s just they had an extra tariff (cost attached to them) as they were coming from non eu countries.

Bloody hell he exploded basically told me I knew nothing and that he was right, & that I was behind the times!! Then called me mad & patronising for reminding him (as he already knew) that I am an international trade specialist who has also taught industry on the subject. Reading a book is not the same as living and breathing it for an entire career.

If I don’t get an apology, I think we are done. It’s not the disagreeing, or difference of opinion - it was the shouty you are mad person for standing up to me & saying you are right. And the complete mansplaining on my area of expertise.

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Whisky2014 · 07/10/2018 17:33

Lol what a knobber. Sorry OP. My brother is like this and i rise to it and it ends up in me looking like an argumentative arse but its the fact he always thinks he is right and cant fathom someone else might have a difference of opinion

Whisky2014 · 07/10/2018 17:34

But even worse since its your area of knowledgem guess he doesnt like to be wrong but jeez...

wingwarbler · 07/10/2018 17:34

Flowers that is so shitty :(

It's horrible to discover that someone who should love and respect you can be capable of being such a complete misogynist arsehole.

Fucking bastard :(

CaptainKirkssparetupee · 07/10/2018 17:37

He's a total arsehole.

CottonTailRabbit · 07/10/2018 17:40

Has he always been a twat?

sundaygrief · 07/10/2018 17:45

Yep that my feeling, arsehole and misogynist. We were brought up by feminists for crying out loud. I've told my DF how disappointed I am in my brother. How on earth has he turned out this way. And yes the argument happened in front of my parent, which made it worse to be honest.

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sundaygrief · 07/10/2018 17:47

@CottonTailRabbit no he hasn't, he does have a tendency to go this way when he has been socialises with certain fuckwits. He normally drops it when I do the peace maker "agree to disagree".. I don't like fighting in front of family, but this was a goad goad spectacular arsehole moment for him. And I was not going to take it.

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CaptainKirkssparetupee · 07/10/2018 17:55

Remember when this was comedy rather than reality?

sundaygrief · 07/10/2018 18:43

@CaptainKirkssparetupee yep, is it me or this behaviour becoming more "acceptable" now?

Patriarchy is rife

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VickyEadie · 07/10/2018 18:46

He's an arsehole.

sundaygrief · 07/10/2018 19:01

I got an apology by text.... actually quite a full and lengthy apology. Bloody hell.

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