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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

GRA - Letter to my MP

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Sicario · 07/10/2018 14:42

I wrote to my MP last week to raise my concerns about men being able to self-identify as women. If you want to contact your MP, you can find their details here:

www.parliament.uk/mps-lords-and-offices/mps/

In order to have your letter or email accepted, it must (as mine did) include your full name, postal address and contact details.

This is the letter I sent:

Dear Mr Heaton-Harris,

I am writing to raise with you my grave concerns about proposed reforms to the Gender Recognition Act.

Women’s rights are being hijacked by an aggressive minority of "trans rights activists" who want to change the very definition of what it is to be a woman, and thus erase our rights.

These activists are demanding that any full-bodied man can declare himself a woman and gain access to women-only spaces. Anyone who objects to this view is branded is a “transphobe” and will be met with the wrath of trans rights trolls.

My assertion that a full-bodied man with a penis is not a woman now renders me a bigot. That is an outrage.

Trans rights activists are creating their own highly offensive language aimed at women who disagree with them, and are demanding that the government accept their idealistic views as true.

Gender is not the same as sex. Any other belief is a delusion. It is impossible for a person to change their sex. They may identify as anything they please, with equal rights for all already enshrined in current law. Some (but very few) may even have gender reassignment surgery to change their outward appearance. But to sweep aside the rights of women and girls to safe, same-sex spaces in order to satisfy the demands of men who “identify” as women, would be a grotesque miscarriage of our basic human rights.

The recent removal of a poster showing the definition of woman (adult human female), on the basis that the word “woman” was hate speech, has moved us into terrifying waters. How can a woman’s rights be defined if the law changes the very definition of the word woman to include men? Women’s rights and protections would be lost. This cannot be allowed to happen.

Women’s concerns are not transphobic. We are not bigots. Our views are being shouted down and silenced by a small but highly aggressive group of trans rights extremists intent on pressing their agenda. Some of these individuals are being welcomed into the arms of political parties with seemingly no thought to the chaos they are intending to wreak.

Women have been attacked just for attending meetings to discuss their fears. People are too afraid to speak up for fear of retribution and their own personal safety. To bend to the demands of trans rights groups would be tantamount to Parliament obliterating women’s hard-fought rights. We have the right to segregate ourselves from men, and to know that our daughters are safe.

I implore you to raise these concerns in the House and to stand up against those bullies who would see women’s rights wiped out.

Yours truly,
[full name, address, phone and email]

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CuriousaboutSamphire · 07/10/2018 14:47

There's another thread at the moment about WPUK, Fair Play for Women etc having a meeting

Meeting: How will changes to the Gender Recognition Act affect women’s rights? Tuesday 16th October 2018 at 10:30am until 12:30pm in Room S, House of Commons

You could add an invitation to your MP to attend!

Littlemouseroar · 07/10/2018 14:48

I think thats a very good letter and far more coherent than anything I could write. Can I use it?

Sicario · 07/10/2018 14:50

I will also be tweeting my MP with the question:

How can women’s rights be defined if the law changes the very definition of the word WOMAN to include men? #womanphobic #sexnotgender

More pesky questions to follow.

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greenlanes · 07/10/2018 14:53

Be very careful of "template" letters. My MP once told me (and I think probably quite rightly) that he was there to support his constituents and their issues. So add your own stories, situations eg sport participation, medical matters etc. ie personalise the letter. If too many identical letters are submitted it could weaken any impact or action.

But totally agree - Sicario - that is an excellent, moving letter. Thank you!

Sicario · 07/10/2018 15:00

Yes! Please do feel free to cut and paste and send and use however you want. I will be sharing with you all more letters, tweets and anything else I send out.

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Sicario · 07/10/2018 15:03

@greenlanes - you are absolutely right about that. I would urge you all to tell your own stories and share your own concerns.

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CriticalCondition · 07/10/2018 15:35

Not using templates/cut and paste/identikit letters is a very good point. There is quite a lot of advice on this on the 'WriteToThem' website about writing to your MP. It makes it clear that identical letters get automatically blocked so they don't even get through.

Not sure what constitutes 'identical' but obviously the more individual the letter is, the better.

Popchyk · 07/10/2018 15:57

Good letter, OP.

I think try to reference local stories to the MP if you can. And give concrete examples.

So, if you are in Hampshire, then reference this story about Jacinta Brooks, a transgender male who claims to be female while sexually assaulting children in the county.

Or if you are in Fife, then reference this story where a teenager assaulted two young girls in the female toilets. Courier link
Ask what the MP would say to those girls and their parents and how we can keep girls safe.

Or if you are in West Yorkshire, then move. But not before calling the MP's attention to Karen White, a male transgender person with a penis found guilty of several rapes and sexual offences against children who went to a women's prison. And predictably assaulted female inmates there. BBC link

This thread is a good resource of the "it will never happen" stuff that has actually happened.

CriticalCondition · 07/10/2018 16:07

Or if you are in West Yorkshire, then move. Grin

Lysistrataknowsherstuff · 07/10/2018 16:28

I wrote to my MP a couple of months ago. I'm in one of the safest conservative seats in the country so it's not that he's hanging on by a margin. No reply yet. He also doesn't email: his assistant (aka his adult son) prints out any emails and he then replies in letter. Not on twitter either. I'm really not expecting an answer as he's just not bothered about my vote.

This is also a man who I overheard in the local bookshop saying to one of his fellow worshippers "I'm so glad the new vicar isn't a woman". So not someone I expect to stand up for women's rights.

he is as socially conservative as they come - wants to limit abortion, voted against equalising the age of consent and against gay marriage. So perhaps in the same way that Iran and Pakistan are fine with sex changes, he is too.

Tangotops · 07/10/2018 17:24

I work for an MP and echo the sentiment of identical letters not being the best wat forward. It runs the risk of the MP/staff thinking it’s yet another campaign 38 degrees or similar has emailed about asking them to click a link. It dilutes the impact.

Tangotops · 07/10/2018 17:24

*way

Onlyfamandclosefknow · 07/10/2018 18:05

Thanks all. Just fired off some emails with examples.

VickyEadie · 07/10/2018 18:12

Or if you are in West Yorkshire, then move.

Excellent!

TimeLady · 07/10/2018 18:23

I've emailed my MP three times in the last 48 hours. The first was quite calm, the third was a complete rant Grin about Penny Mordaunt not meeting the FPFW and WPUK team, whilst schmoozing with Stonewall at the Tory party conference a few days ago.

He is a nice guy, a Conservative who knows me, so I'm really hoping he takes this on board.

Six months ago, I was tentative in my approach. This time he got both barrels. I know I'm not a bigot.

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