My local Sexual Assault Referral Centre (SARC) has this in their FAQs:
"Q. Can I choose to have a male or female doctor / police officer?
Every effort is made to accommodate your wishes. If you are not happy with the gender of the doctor or police officer, you will be given the option of waiting until we are able to accommodate your wishes. "
Should this say 'sex' not gender? A friend of mine is asking what would happen if she wanted to be seen by a doctor who had been born female and had remained female, and wants to find a polite way to express that.
I keep thinking I have got my head around all this issue, yet wake up every day with more questions.