What is it with these men who can't really make it as convincing males think they can claim to be women instead
I have no time for Munroe Bergdorf's stupidity. She needs to read some actual black history books (radical suggestion, I know).
But ...
I think we must be tough about supporting 'feminine men.' Masculinity is toxic and harsh. And men who reject that, but maintain their identity as men, and assert different ways of being male and masculine, should be applauded.
If Munroe Bergdorf had embraced her idemtity as a ghay, "effeminate" man, I'd have no problem - although I'd still need to call out the misogyny and ageism of the statement's that Bergdorf id making.
But let's not condemn men who don't want toxic masculinity - let's not call them "failures" at being men. Although we must call out their cowardice in simply converting to being "women." That's no solution.