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Thank You Mumsnet

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Whatyearisit · 04/10/2018 15:20

I’d just like to say a big thank you to mumsnet for giving people a place to discuss the important issues of the day. I am truly stunned that in 2018 people are trying to silence women who want to talk about ..... women...... and children .....and safeguarding....

I’ve been lurking on this board since July and I’ve really appreciated having access to the amazing wealth of information on here. So thank you mumsnet and thank you to all of the people who post on this board.

It’s a real eye opener when you see everything collated in one place.

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IdahoCrow · 04/10/2018 15:21

Ditto. It's been enlightening.

concretesieve · 04/10/2018 15:23

Hear, hear!

BoreOfWhabylon · 04/10/2018 15:30

Yes, a big thank you to MNHQ, especially the mods who, I'm pretty sure, are constantly deluged with TRAs complaints and threats.

It must be soul-destroying for them at times. Flowers

VickyEadie · 04/10/2018 15:34

This board keeps me sane (and often highly amused, so smart and funny are many people on here) in a world which increasingly seems to be full of nonsense.

WichBitchHarpyTerfThatsMe · 04/10/2018 16:21

Yes, thank you MN.

LikeDustWeRise · 04/10/2018 16:48

Hopefully good sense with be restored before too many people are harmed.
Mumsnet will be vindicated.

We are on the right side of history.

Sicario · 04/10/2018 16:56

May I just say to all the women who have been contributing to this... you are all SUPERSTARS!

I told my husband last night, "don't worry, I'm a bit old for the spray painting and throwing bricks through windows stuff". To which he said, "thank fuck for that. Go for it."

So I'm out and proud. And doing stuff in real life. You lot rock!

x

MrsSnippyPants · 04/10/2018 17:00

This board has given me the confidence to talk about this stuff. Slowly but surely we are making progress as we spread the word.

CigarsofthePharoahs · 04/10/2018 17:01

Thank you mn and all the women here who've carefully and patiently explained everything.

HandsOffMyRights · 04/10/2018 17:02

Thank you Mumsnet. And to all those who contribute to FWR.

This forum is an oasis in the one sided tirade that is Twitter.

Please let this remain. Let women keep our voices during this time of so much hatred and uncertainty for women.

Help us keep our children safe and allow girls to grow up out of the shadow of this tyrany. Help us to avoid witch hunts, abuse and Gilead.

Support our existence.

Amen!

Sicario · 04/10/2018 18:07

This is the letter that I sent to my local MP at 8am this morning:

Dear Mr Heaton-Harris,

I am writing to raise with you my grave concerns about proposed reforms to the Gender Recognition Act.

Women’s rights are being hijacked by an aggressive minority of "trans rights activists" who want to change the very definition of what it is to be a woman, and thus erase our rights.

These activists are demanding that any full-bodied man can declare himself a woman and gain access to women-only spaces. Anyone who objects to this view is branded is a “transphobe” and will be met with the wrath of trans rights trolls.

My assertion that a full-bodied man with a penis is not a woman now renders me a bigot. That is an outrage.

Trans rights activists are creating their own highly offensive language aimed at women who disagree with them, and are demanding that the government accept their idealistic views as true.

Gender is not the same as sex. Any other belief is a delusion. It is impossible for a person to change their sex. They may identify as anything they please, with equal rights for all already enshrined in current law. Some (but very few) may even have gender reassignment surgery to change their outward appearance. But to sweep aside the rights of women and girls to safe, same-sex spaces in order to satisfy the demands of men who “identify” as women, would be a grotesque miscarriage of our basic human rights.

The recent removal of a poster showing the definition of woman (adult human female), on the basis that the word “woman” was hate speech, has moved us into terrifying waters. How can a woman’s rights be defined if the law changes the very definition of the word woman to include men? Women’s rights and protections would be lost. This cannot be allowed to happen.

Women’s concerns are not transphobic. We are not bigots. Our views are being shouted down and silenced by a small but highly aggressive group of trans rights extremists intent on pressing their agenda. Some of these individuals are being welcomed into the arms of political parties with seemingly no thought to the chaos they are intending to wreak.

Women have been attacked just for attending meetings to discuss their fears. People are too afraid to speak up for fear of retribution and their own personal safety. To bend to the demands of trans rights groups would be tantamount to Parliament obliterating women’s hard-fought rights. We have the right to segregate ourselves from men, and to know that our daughters are safe.

I implore you to raise these concerns in the House and to stand up against those bullies who would see women’s rights wiped out.

Yours truly,
[sicario]
-(obviously my real name, full address and telephone number on the letter but for this board, hey, a wife, mother, daughter, sister, and loving feminist. x)

LikeDustWeRise · 04/10/2018 19:36

Fantastic letter

BernardBlacksWineIcelolly · 04/10/2018 19:40

Thank you Mumsnetters

Allycumpooster · 05/10/2018 08:39

That is a great letter Sicario, do you mind if it is used as a base for other letters?

KatVonGulag · 05/10/2018 08:53

Thank you mumsnet.

ADisrespectfulWoman · 05/10/2018 09:01

What a fantastic letter Sicario! I too would like to use it as a template if that's ok with you?

Thanks to MN for hosting these discussions, I don't always agree with some of the decisions made but the board still stands and the discussion continues. That is so important.

Thanks too to all of the amazing Mumsnetters who have shared their knowledge and views on this board. I continue to learn so much from you all.

Sicario · 05/10/2018 09:28

Please do go ahead and use however you want!

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