Apologies for not being able to link this to the original thread (it's a MN thing). But Baracker wrote something that struck me as very powerful.
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You are transexual with a GRC, you know that the law is on your side, that legally you have been issued an entitlement over women.
Men created the Yogyakarta principles for you.
Men lobbied for you.
Men in the House of Commons debated for you.
Men in the House of Lords debated for you.
Men made a law for you.
Men devised an authorisation process for you.
Men made judgements, set legal precedents for you.
Men created surgeries for you to tell you the male body could be made to 'look female'.
Men gave you a certificate to force people to pretend you were Female.
Men gave you legal rights over females.
You talk of your 'banishment' from Female spaces.
Of 'being willing to debate our rights' with us
Of 'finding solutions'
You say you're an intellectual.
Are you intellectually honest?
What you have is a legal mandate, from men, over women.
The question is, will you use it, once you see it for what it is?
Will you hold it over women and proffer us an opportunity to 'debate' our boundaries and our rights with you, holder of a male mandate?
Or will you reject it and see this abominable situation for what it is; yet one more example in a millennium long history, of men asserting dominance over women?
You have a legal mandate. It is not a moral one. It has always been immoral.
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