I actually loved living in the US (Bay Area) for some time. Still longing for that time... friendly people, great Nature...
But I sure as hell would not want to get sucked into legal system. Without loads of money you are f*ed. I believe Chris Hedges said many plead guilty without being guilty, because otherwise you might go to prison for a long time, and many won't risk it (particularly without an expensive private lawyer).
I am an ardent feminist. I also have a son (still young), so this topic of male on male concerns me, too. (Even though, clearly, women are more often victims of sexual violence and males almost always the perpetrators). I have sometimes wondered, whether toxic masculinity may be a result of males never ever wanting to be the victims of sexual violence (I'm not a sociologist, though), and therefore posing as the ubermale/potential threat to other males. I feel, if we could get a grip on male violence against males (not 'only females'), too, that would make a better world for women, too.
(I once read an article of male rape victims of war in Africa with life long health issues not daring to confess to anyone, because it is such a taboo. Can't be good for their families and society as a whole.)
That was probably the mother of all tangents, now.