I've mentioned this before in other posts, that we're witnessing the point where things become more dangerous, but Lisa sums it up so much better than I could ever do:
Venice, Posie, Maria, Miranda (fucking Yardley!), Debbie, Kristina - and you, Lisa. You, you awesome woman.
This is not a joke.
Many of us on Mumsnet, particularly on relationship board for years, have grown to learn this:
The point in time which a woman leaves abuse is more dangerous than any time. The year after is the most dangerous of her life. The point that narcissistic males realise they do not have control - they cannot control their rage, they cannot control their thought processes
The same dynamics are in place here.
Women are learning and 'leaving'.
And the result:
Abusive males who thought they had won - and are rapidly realising they did not.
We can see this by the ramping up of the lashing out.
Hopefully through Lisa shining a light on those most at risk, it can lower the risk for them.
And hopefully they know that so many more of us supporting them (and yes, I realise Mumsnet is a largely anonymous forum, for good reasons, but many of us are doing stuff elsewhere).