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Artistic Director of Queer Up North speaks out on trans activism, Stonewall and women's rights

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SanctimoniousMorph · 16/08/2018 09:30

medium.com/@JonnnyBest/the-story-of-my-first-brush-with-trans-activism-and-what-i-learned-3ef13e31fd37

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Manderleyagain · 17/08/2018 22:35

Jonnybest
Thank you for your excellent article. If you could Co author something with a woman by way of comparison it would be really valuable. It would be even better if you could get it commissioned by a proper media outlet and then you could find out if stonewall would reply to your question!? I would hope an editor somewhere would be interested.

Ereshkigal · 17/08/2018 23:43

Sorry if someone has linked to it before, but have just managed to start reading Dr Jane Clare Jone's piece of post structural feminism and a material analysis of patriarchy, and it is bloody brilliant. https://janeclarejones.com/2018/07/18/post-structuralism-butler-and-bodiess^<a class="break-all" href="http://go.mumsnet.com/?xs=1&id=470X1554755&url=janeclarejones.com/2018/07/18/post-structuralism-butler-and-bodies/" target="_blank">//^

I don't think anyone has. I was going to link to her Twitter feed! I know Jonny is a fan from the comments on his timeline. She's amazing.

UnWilly · 18/08/2018 00:27

This is a really good article, thank you Jonny

A few people said that they liked this
analogy I put on the GetTheLOut Pride protest thread, so I thought I might repeat it here:

You know how some people say they are vegetarian but it turns out that while they don't eat meat they do eat seafood. And actual vegetarians have a problem with this as some people then think that vegetarians eat seafood and it all gets confusing for people trying to understand what a vegetarian actually is.

For practical purposes there may be times when a pescatarian finds it easier to say they are vegetarian presentationally because they strongly feel they align to the not eating meat bit.

But saying you are something does not mean you are.

And vegetarians should not be expected to eat seafood because some pescatarian say or think they are vegetarian.

heresyandwitchcraft · 18/08/2018 00:28

Smile That's a great analogy.

JonnyBest · 18/08/2018 02:35

Ereshkigal and SaulGoodwoman
Yes, I am a huge fan of Jane Clare Jones. She is a wonderful writer and manages to be super-clear with really complex material and then she's funny at the same time. I am a bit in awe of her, tbh.

Charliethefeminist · 18/08/2018 06:54

Just reading back over Datun and nauti's comments about being reasonable and the stance having to harden. I agree that it really has got to the stage where we must just hold the line. People have forgotten that our boundaries are in no one else's gift.

WhereDoWeBeginToCovetClarice · 18/08/2018 08:33

I didn't read the full thread yet but Datun's comment did stick out at me.

My belief is that the specialists who first deemed that a reasonable relief for a male's dysphoria is to pretend to be the opposite sex, to deceive everyone as convincingly as they can and to access women's hard won spaces and facilities (to escape male domination) in order to validate this new fake persona, were a bunch of raving misogynist bastards who didn't give a shit about women's boundaries, consent or permission to have these males among us, claiming to be us.

It is not just these specialists who are misogynist bastards. Any male who thinks it is their entitlement to violate women's boundaries to relieve their dysphoria is also a misogynist bastard. Any other people who think violating women's boundaries is an appropriate relief for a male's problem in any case whatsoever, are also misogynists.

I am losing patience with all this sugar-coated misogyny from 'nice', 'diplomatic' arseholes.

ChattyLion · 18/08/2018 09:06

Saulgoodwoman
I am so grateful for your link (reposted below) thanks for posting that. Jane Clare Jones’ writing is fab. I know fuck all about philosophy so i’m re-reading bits as I go along and looking stuff up but I love how she explains it.

Sorry if someone has linked to it before, but have just managed to start reading Dr Jane Clare Jone's piece of post structural feminism and a material analysis of patriarchy, and it is bloody brilliant.

janeclarejones.com/2018/07/18/post-structuralism-butler-and-bodies/

Alicethroughtheblackmirror · 18/08/2018 10:02

Bit late to the thread, but also wanted to add thanks for a fantastic article.

Like many others here, I would, until recently, have broadly considered myself supportive the trans community. I think it was the shock of realising that what I felt was an uncontroversial opinion that the experience of women and trans women must, of necessity, be different was apparently 'transphobic' because TWAW. I've since been horrified that harmful gender stereotypes are now being pushed at children as the one true signifier of their true identity. It's all so depressingly regressive and reductive especially from supposedly progressive organisations.

vicviking · 18/08/2018 10:43

Thanks Jonny for this brilliant piece.

SaulGoodwoman · 18/08/2018 11:11

I guess many would argue there have always been trans people in societies. [I don't mean butch lesbians or feminine gay men who have been transed beyond the grave. ] But that is an interesting point - not sure if it has been discussed - re potential homophobia in very conservative/patriarchal societies, and the way trans people are accommodated in those cultures [to an extent, trans sex workers are of course very vulnerable] when gay people absolutely would not be.

For the women in Albania who swore to live as men and take a vow of life-long chastity - the decision has been a pragmatic one - to avoid arranged marriage and to be able to inherit the family home.

www.theguardian.com/world/2014/aug/05/women-celibacy-oath-men-rights-albania

It is a tradition dying out obviously, but interesting as part of the history of trans people [and of course a practical decision in a patriarchal society] Then there are the transwomen in the Iranian women's football team and the transwomen in the Phillipines and Thailand etc.

This guy [a professor of Gender Studies in Calfornia no less] seems to conflate several ideas in his piece for The Guardian, re Native American practices. It may just be bad editing of course, but he seems to start out by saying Native American culture accepted feminine men and masculine women with their 'two spirit tradition' and emphasises the acceptance of a tradition of homosexuality with these people, but then goes on to prove this is evidence of transgender people in those communities [um a very contemporary and western lens through which to view it]
www.theguardian.com/music/2010/oct/11/two-spirit-people-north-america

I think gender studies seems so often academically flaccid [hence my admiration of Dr Jane Clare Jones] It would be really good to know more about transgender traditions in earlier societies, and the difference between that, and just accepting feminine men and masculine women in less patriarchal societies.

SarahAr · 18/08/2018 11:11

Gender identity is already written into the law. Gender identity is an inherent part of the medical condition gender dysphoria see www.nhs.uk/conditions/gender-dysphoria. And today the only way you can legally change your gender is with a diagnosis of gender dysphoria.

If self-id goes ahead, then the need for a diagnosis of gender dysphoria goes away. In fact gender identity is removed from the law. All that is needed is the intention to live in your acquired gender for the rest of your life.

Sadly Jonny is another in a long series of progressive non-trans men who have been called out on their transphobia (here's looking at you Graham Linehan). Rather than self-reflect, he has been drawn to a gender critical view point presumably because this validates his transphobia and saves his ego from harm.

SaulGoodwoman · 18/08/2018 11:12

When I say prove I mean claim!

littlbrowndog · 18/08/2018 11:21

Naw Sarahr.

He’s not stupid he is just telling the truth

SaulGoodwoman · 18/08/2018 11:21

SarahAr have you actually read Jonny's piece? Because it doesn't sound as if you have. If you have and you have come to that confusion, then I think the self-reflection in order is yours. I wish you well.

littlbrowndog · 18/08/2018 11:22

What the shit is a non trans man. Is that like a man ? Just a man

SaulGoodwoman · 18/08/2018 11:22

I mean conclusion but confusion is a pretty good word for it too....

Cascade220 · 18/08/2018 11:24

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SaulGoodwoman · 18/08/2018 11:24

'Non-trans man.' I'd rather you said 'non-woman'. Can we refer to all men as 'non-women' from now on please?

WhereDoWeBeginToCovetClarice · 18/08/2018 11:25

sarahar

When you say his transphobia what do you think it means?

Is transphobia disliking/hating/fearing someone for:
a) having a mental condition where they perceive themselves in a way that is at odds with reality?
b) wearing the clothes and paraphernalia and adopting mannerisms stereotypical of the opposite sex?
c) trying to deceive others about their sex?

Or is it something else more akin to not believing you can literally be 'trans' - across both sexes?

littlbrowndog · 18/08/2018 11:26

Transphobic blah blah
Hate blah blah
Transphobia blah blah
Called out blah blah

terryleather · 18/08/2018 11:35

*littlebrowndog
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I pretty much hear that too when I read sarahar's efforts. Mostly I just want to reply with this...

Artistic Director of Queer Up North speaks out on trans activism, Stonewall and women's rights
terryleather · 18/08/2018 11:36

I mostly just want to reply with that meme to a lot of things that TRAs post tbh...

Alittleshaderequired · 18/08/2018 11:37

I may have missed this already mentioned in the thread but I thought the comment on his twitter feed pointing out how the transgender lobby has done a huge disservice to transsexual individuals recovering from or heading towards who are now being treated with far less empathy and understanding was something we don’t tend to think about. Or at least I haven’t until recently.

Charley50 · 18/08/2018 11:40

Great article Jonny and great thread. I find the whole issue shocking, all of it, but in particular the encouraging of young people, who would usually identify as gay or lesbian, to undergo hormone treatment/ surgery etc. I know a young woman going through this. When I spoke to her about the risks involved to her health, she seemed unaware of them. It's madness.