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@Bowlofbabelfish I haven't replied since early afternoon as I've been at work and then helping a couple of my kids with applications for part-time jobs.
And, I've also been trying to read up around the EQ Act 2010. It's a huge document with lots of explanatory notes and other supporting documents and I don't think I'm going to get through it all very quickly.
I need to understand what the intentions of the EQ Act are before I offer an answer to your questions.
In one of the supporting documents I've come across, published by the W&E Committee in parliament in 2016 is 'Transgender Equality': publications.parliament.uk/pa/cm201516/cmselect/cmwomeq/390/390.pdf
One of the statements of interpretation of the EQ Act I've got to in there states:
132. Significant concerns have been raised with us regarding the provisions of the Equality Act concerned with separate-sex and single-sex services and the genuine occupational requirement as these relate to trans people. These are sensitive areas, where there does need to be some limited ability to exercise discretion, if this is a proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim. However, we are not persuaded that this discretion should apply where a trans person has been recognised as of their acquired gender “for all legal purposes” under the Gender Recognition Act. In many instances this is unlikely, in any case, to meet the proportionate test. We recommend that the Equality Act be amended so that the occupational requirements provision and / or the single-sex / separate services provision shall not apply in relation to discrimination against a person whose acquired gender has been recognised under the Gender Recognition Act 2004.
Now if under proposed Self-ID if we lose the faceless medical panel and just have to supply our two diagnosis letters and documents to prove we've been 'living in role' [this is not my term] then only people diagnosed with GD would be able to Self-ID - but the process would be easier and cheaper for those people. And the diagnoses should only be accepted from a regularly updated list of NHS GIC or private gender specialists or from recognised international specialists.
If Self-ID is lighter than that and the medical diagnosis of GD goes then yes, I share your concerns of floodgates potentially opening.
Mods - this post might be off-topic but trying to come to an answer to questions posed to me. If it should be in a GRA thread let me know.