It may be a while before older women stop feeling erased and annoyed
gabby i am nearly a decade younger than you. i suggest you get out there and talk to people who have been affected by female cancers, people for whom english is a second language and people from different social backgrounds than your own.
it is not just about "feeling" erased and annoyed. it is also about actually missing the very people who need to hear the advice. and the result of that is, well, potentially more premature deaths.
every trans man knows they were born with a female anatomy and that the word woman, when talked about in a health setting, could apply to them.
not every woman knows what a cervix is.