Meet the Other Phone. Flexible and made to last.

Meet the Other Phone.
Flexible and made to last.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Those pictures of the Theresa May curtseying that are doing the rounds on social media

50 replies

SarahCarer · 26/06/2018 07:30

Now I am very left wing but those pictures of TM curtseying to royalty are so utterly belittling and unnecessarily humiliating it's putting me off labour completely. It seems to me that it is yet another example of labour-supporting men being anti women.

OP posts:
MelanieSmooter · 26/06/2018 07:30

LOL. No, it’s funny. It would be funny no matter who it was.

Get a life.

SarahCarer · 26/06/2018 07:38

It seems funny because she is the prime minister being forced (by sexist protocols) to belittle herself physically. A bow would be considerably more dignified and would not have yielded such pictures.

OP posts:
UnderHerEye · 26/06/2018 07:39

SarahCarer

I agree with you, cheap nasty shots, which wouldn’t happen to a man.

Alexa488 · 26/06/2018 07:40

Please don't say get a life it's an awful thing to be on the receiving end of

Racecardriver · 26/06/2018 07:41

Ffs it is a curtsey. It really is not belittling. If she can't manage to do it without looking u dignified that is her fault. Most people manage just fine. It is the ettiquette for a man to bow and a woman to curtsey, both a submissive postures used to express deference or respect. In no way is a bow more dignified than a curtsey.

Bespin · 26/06/2018 07:42

I find curtseying an outdated form of greeting and always looks odd unless she was in full edwarden dress then I suppose it would look better. I would expect her to maintain the state and the know your place mentality because not to do so would be political suicide in the papers, see Jeremy not standing. People have there own choice on these things I suppose she could have bowed and that would have made news.

SarahCarer · 26/06/2018 07:42

Thanks Alexa. Amongst other things, labour supporters are mocking her for being 'graceless'

OP posts:
ThomasNightingale · 26/06/2018 07:46

I don’t like it either. The jokes seem to have a nasty sexist ageist edge to them. Everyone always looks terrible curtsying in a knee length skirt. I’m with Granny Weatherwax; Boeing is the way.

fieryginger · 26/06/2018 07:46

It doesn't bother me at all.

ThomasNightingale · 26/06/2018 07:47

Sodding iPhone. Bowing

SporadicSpartacus · 26/06/2018 07:48

A male friend of mine pointed out that TM gets far more flack about her appearance and doing physically awkward things like curtseying than a man ever would. He is getting pilloried. Think i’ll go add a message of support.

MrsWooster · 26/06/2018 07:53

Did you just misgendering TM?! Tutu tut, to the brig with you.

MrsWooster · 26/06/2018 07:54

Arse. Just reread- you're on about your friend. Run free!

Rufustheyawningreindeer · 26/06/2018 08:01

Run free

Grin
Rufustheyawningreindeer · 26/06/2018 08:02

I haven't seen it

But i agree tha a bow is easier and more dignified than a curtsy

HowWasLastnight · 26/06/2018 08:14

I haven't seen it.

We have become "useful idiots" to the agenda of others retreating and posting.

HowWasLastnight · 26/06/2018 08:15

Retweeting

SporadicSpartacus · 26/06/2018 08:34

I’m pretty sure my friend still IDs as male.

whew

Safe - this time.

BertrandRussell · 26/06/2018 08:38

One of my issues with the picture is that I am amazed we have a Prime Minister who doesn't know -and hasn't been told-what to do when you meet a member of the royal family. After all, it can't be the first time.

ErrolTheDragon · 26/06/2018 08:45

Yes. Its sexist, and also (having just googled because I'd not seen this 'story'), I found another take on it:

www.bustle.com/p/criticising-theresa-mays-curtsy-to-prince-william-is-actually-pretty-unhelpful-for-these-reasons-9553997

Pillorying people for being socially awkward are nasty, not a case of ' It would be funny no matter who it was.'.

BertrandRussell · 26/06/2018 08:50

The Prime Minister should know how to meet a member of the royal family. She may be "socially awkward" but that doesn't excuse her from knowing the "rules". And I don't think it's funny-I think it's embarrassing.

beenandgoneandbackagain · 26/06/2018 08:58

I agree that she wouldn't be getting the same flack for an awkward bow. The flack has a definite hint of misogyny.

But I also agree that as PM she should know how to do a graceful curtsey if and when protocol requires. Protocol didn't require her to curtsey on this occasion, so she chose to do so, and she did it really terribly.

Who is advising our politicians on their body language/movement? They should be asking for a refund.

BertrandRussell · 26/06/2018 09:06

I wish there was a name for opportunist feminism

ajandjjmum · 26/06/2018 09:08

How does knowing how to curtsey affect the ability of the PM to do her job?

Violetparis · 26/06/2018 09:11

It just looks so old fashioned, grovelling and subserviant, think that's why she is being ridiculed, not because she is a woman.