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Women and medicine: unconscious bias

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Ekphrasis · 01/06/2018 10:06

Quite literally the story of my medical history, that of my sister and my elderly Aunt that I know of to name those closest to me.

www.bbc.com/future/story/20180523-how-gender-bias-affects-your-healthcare?ocid=ww.social.link.facebook

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MistAmougstElephants · 01/06/2018 10:13

Thanks for posting. So pleased this is getting some time on the BBC. To many women are failed by the healthcare system and so many people are ablivious to it.

Sorry for everything you had to go through to be taken seriously Ek Flowers

Elendon · 01/06/2018 10:21

Good link and essential reading for everyone.

Here's a link to the book:

www.amazon.co.uk/Doing-Harm-Medicine-Dismissed-Misdiagnosed/dp/0062470809?tag=mumsnetforum-21

My Prolactinoma was mis diagnosed at first and when the symptoms didn't go (after a disastrous course of fertility pills that I had to stop after a week), I went to another doctor who quickly recognised what the cause of my periods stopping might be and he was right. I was recommended to go to him by a friend. Thankfully, excretion of prolactin dropped in my late 20s and I was able to have children without the need for medication.

MistAmougstElephants · 01/06/2018 10:27

Thanks for thenlink elendon will check it out.

For anyone interested watch Unrest on Netflix it's based around ME but covers a lot of ground with immune sytem disorders, how they are more prevalent in women and the funding for research is shit. How different women in different countries are treated - spoiler alert BADLY. It's well worth a watch even if you don't have an immune sytem disorder. It wasn't all gloomy though if you can believe it.

BeyondSceptical · 01/06/2018 10:29

My EDS diagnosis took 16 years (I was 28 and first had issues in high school). Spooky!

I also had depression and anxiety for a similar amount of time before I asked for an Asd assessment - and got a diagnosis

boldlygoingsomewhere · 01/06/2018 10:53

It’s so depressing reading this but very common occurrence.
My mum was dismissed time and time again and told her symptoms were just the menopause. No further investigation was done until she collapsed at home one day - turned out she had cancer and she died 6 weeks later. Angry

Ekphrasis · 01/06/2018 10:54

Thanks mist, my personal medicinal history is very common though, that of hypothyroidism, which for some time now I've said is badly treated due to it mostly being a disease women experience.

I developed it quite young and was given antidepressants/ not listened to for a long time which made things worse. Took a while to be tested and diagnosed. Then to be honest, many years of not so great management. It left a big mark on my early 20s and left me with anxiety issues / trauma regarding a few things.

My BIG issue is that it's STILL occasionally being appallingly dealt with when women are pregnant.

Start of this second pregnancy, yet again when I asked for tests and the raising of my thyroxine, knowing how high I had to go in my first pregnancy, a gp started to discuss my 'anxiety' and did I was support for this. My 'anxiety' was emotional frustration at having to fight for what I knew was the right course of action.

I swear if more men had it it would be better treated.

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Ekphrasis · 01/06/2018 10:54

Oh I'm so sorry boldly Thanks

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MargaretCavendish · 01/06/2018 10:59

This is really interesting. I find that female pain is very much dismissed. I can't speak to childbirth, which is I guess the ultimate example of this, but both having an IUD fitted and miscarriages were experiences where I was told to expect 'discomfort' but the doctors were then unsurprised when that turned out to mean 'considerable pain'. I don't think we'd do a procedure as painful as every woman I know has found having a coil fitted on men with no pain relief at all. I've never found this happens with pain that isn't specifically women's pain - no one refers to 'back discomfort'.

TwittleBee · 01/06/2018 11:39

Mum has arthritis but took a few years to get diagnosed as she was deemed too young
My cousin has gone through early menopause at 22 but was dismissed for first few years and put down to just her period playing up due to her age
My sister has a strange knee condition (cannot remember for life of me what its called) but was dismissed as being a dramatic teenager for over a year
I'm currently undergoing medical investigations for pelvic pain etc and so far I feel as though I am being dismissed as "it cant be that painful, you managed to get here today" and "are you sure you aren't pushing for diagnosis because you struggling to conceive quickly"

TwittleBee · 01/06/2018 11:42

MargaretCavendish such a good point about "discomfort" - the sweep they gave me (without consent I might add!!!!!) was said to give me "a bit of discomfort" - bloody heck those contractions after that sweep were worse than when I was in actual active labour.

Ekphrasis · 01/06/2018 11:52

I think some women don't find miscarriages painful which may confuse some descriptions of mc - I did though, excruciatingly painful at 8 weeks. Proper contractions that I had to breathe through. Having said that, everywhere described it as 'period like pains' - this was not my experience.

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TwittleBee · 01/06/2018 12:01

I suppose that is like how some women do not find periods painful, how I long to be back in that group

Ekphrasis · 01/06/2018 12:37

Yes - I've rarely ever had pain for periods. But always been aware of how bad it is for others.

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MargaretCavendish · 01/06/2018 12:45

I agree that experiences like miscarriage and period pain vary from woman to woman (and from time to time - I've had three miscarriages, all between 6 and 8 weeks, and two were like my normal period pain but a bit worse, one was really very painful and felt quite different), but I don't think that explains why the possibility of these things being very painful are dismissed. My sciatica is unpleasant but I can live and work through it fine, but lots of people can't, but I still don't see it being described as 'discomfort'. I do think there's something gendered about the way that any pain that could be considered reproductive or gynaecological is played down.

R0wantrees · 01/06/2018 12:54

This is a very common issue in the diagnosis of gynaecological cancers.

As well as there being a very low level of awareness of common symptoms, many women will have been to their GPs a number of times.

for example:
Target Ovarian Cancer:
"The UK has amongst the lowest survival rates in Europe for ovarian cancer, with a five year survival rate of just 46 per cent. If diagnosed at the earliest stages, up to 90 per cent of women would survive five years or more. Sadly, nearly two thirds of women in England are diagnosed with ovarian cancer once it has already spread. The role of GPs in diagnosing ovarian cancer early is crucial, but diagnosis is not always easy.

Evidence now shows that most women are symptomatic, regardless of the stage at which they are diagnosed"
www.targetovariancancer.org.uk/health-professionals/information-gps

R0wantrees · 01/06/2018 12:59

boldlygoingsomewhere I'm so very sorry to hear about your Mum. Flowers

I was diagnosed with gyny cancer a number of years ago and so am painfully aware of how many women and their families experience this.

boldlygoingsomewhere · 01/06/2018 13:10

Thank you for the flowers Ekphrasis and R0wantrees - it was a long time ago now but made me very aware how easily dismissed any gynaecological symptoms are.

I put up with a lot of stuff post-birth too because I thought it was ‘normal’ and this is another area where women are patronised. One of my main worries in childbirth was not having my pain taken seriously - I wasn’t a screamer, just went into myself and very quiet. To an onlooker I probably looked calm and in control!

R0wantrees · 01/06/2018 13:25

I think this belief that things are 'normal' is really important to talk about.

Most women I know with a similar diagnosis to mine will talk about having 'known there was something not quite right for them' but also believing or being told that it was 'normal' due to their age, life circumstances etc.

I do also wonder how much of the 'don't make a fuss, this is what women have to put up with' becomes internalised. It was definitely something I remember vividly being told as a girl.

Lichtie · 01/06/2018 13:36

So who is this down to, is it the doctors or their training? Do female GPs not outnumber men as GPs now?
I find it hard to understand why they would ignore women but listen to men more.

MargaretCavendish · 01/06/2018 13:39

So who is this down to, is it the doctors or their training? Do female GPs not outnumber men as GPs now?
I find it hard to understand why they would ignore women but listen to men more.

Because women also absorb the lessons of a patriarchal society?

gendercritter · 01/06/2018 13:42

It took me 14 years to get a diagnosis for one of my conditions. It destroyed my childhood.

I would second watching 'Unrest' or 'Voices from the shadows' which is on vimeo

Elendon · 01/06/2018 14:00

I also believe it's a 'we know better than you' attitude to many women who dare complain about what is going wrong with their bodies.

It's a case of not listening to women.

MoltenLasagne · 01/06/2018 14:29

The patriarchal attitude in medicine is definitely taught. Take a browse through a medical textbook - you get chapter and verse on the symptoms of a heart attack, and then a little footnote that this may be different for women. Doctors in training are brought into a culture that falsely believes women exaggerate and men try to put on a brave face - add a racial and class based lens on that and it gets much worse.

I also suspect this is exacerbated by the NHS being on its knees financially. Not just from a cost perspective but also because of the narrative that surrounds it now. We're supposed to be so grateful that we're getting free treatment that we shouldn't complain about bad treatment or bother the doctors too much and anyone that tries to push for treatment is a difficult woman (as opposed to a determined man).

MargaretCavendish · 01/06/2018 15:05

Doctors in training are brought into a culture that falsely believes women exaggerate and men try to put on a brave face - add a racial and class based lens on that and it gets much worse.

I've also found that this really chimes with my own experience - my DH is a complete hypochondriac, and I've been astonished at how many unnecessary tests and scans he's been sent for by GPs 'because men don't come to the doctor unless there's something really wrong'. I also suspect it helps that he's white and posh (as am I - and being articulate and 'their sort of people' has definitely got me better treatment from doctors, too, particularly surrounding my mental health) - his ridiculous delusions that he's ill (I love him really!) get automatically taken seriously.

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