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Trans women are women answers to Terfmore's questions

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SupermatchGame · 25/04/2018 20:33

Terfmore. I don't want to override the ASD discussion that's developed...
but SupermacthGame: you gave your explanation why "trans women are women". I was hoping for a coherent argument.
Could you respond to my request that you clarify your position; I found it difficult to understand tbh I found it incoherent.
You could start a new thread if you like.

Ok, as you suggest:

upthread you say -
"Trans women are women because 'woman' (or female) is not only a legal designation but having a gender identity of 'woman' is a legitimate female gender identity with some basis in biology and physiology. No-one said this is an exact science. It's pragmatic." -
Could you break this down -

1. what do you mean "woman" is a legal designation? what law are you referring to? do you mean "adult human female"?

I mean the category ‘female’ not only has a biological definition, but it is also a legal category that can be conferred to a person following GRC. I’m using ‘woman’ and ‘female’ interchangeably here. Eg as specified in the Royal College of Psychiatrist’s Guidance on gender dysphoria:
"Once a Gender Regulation [sic] Certificate has been issued, the applicant must, in accordance with the provisions of that certificate, be identified as a man or a woman and not a ‘trans man’ or ‘trans woman’. "

Quoting the Gender Recognition Act 2004:
"Where a full gender recognition certificate is issued to a person, the person’s gender becomes for all purposes the acquired gender (so that, if the acquired gender is the male gender, the person’s sex becomes that of a man and, if it is the female gender, the person’s sex becomes that of a woman)." (my bold)

2. what does "gender identity of woman is a legitimate female gender identity" mean.

It means that regardless of natal sex, if a person identifies as a woman, and they have been diagnosed or confirmed as having a ‘female gender identity’ then to all intents and purposes they are classed as having a female gender identity that legitimises medical and legal transition. I’m not sure taken in isolation this clause makes much sense because it is part of a larger sentence.

3. in what way is an identity legitimate (and presumably there will be non or illegitimate identity?)

Legitimate as in confirmed by psychiatrists and/ or psychologists. As in a (cross sex) gender identity that is not caused by some co-morbidity or underlying pathology. (Not caused by anything other than GID/ or 'transgenderism'). An identity that can then be further legitimised by changing legal status.

4. do you mean identity "has some basis in biology and physiology"? what do you mean by identity? (it means different things to different people).

I mean gender identity (the sex with which an individual identifies with or feels they are) has genetic, biological, environmental and societal causes. (Although you could say that about most aspects of identity - using the biopsychosocial model). What evidence there is points to this. I’ve highlighted a lot of it on the other thread. I was abbreviating my language and focusing on the non environmental causes - by biology I meant genes and biochemistry including hormonal influences. By physiology I meant the physiology of the brain as in brain structure. Is There Something Unique about the Transgender Brain? www.scientificamerican.com/article/is-there-something-unique-about-the-transgender-brain/

5. What is "pragmatic"? I think you are referring to "trans women are women" not being exact but we just have to live with it. but I may have that wrong?

Not 100% perfect solution. No-one has yet found a way to ‘cure’ transsexualism. Treatment alleviates dysphoria. In many cases it supports the person to lead a happier life in which they can function better psychologically, emotionally, socially and occupationally. Sometimes also in terms of sexual relationships. It’s not a perfect transition - trans women do not acquire wombs, trans men do not have real testicles (not that they all want to?) Not all trans people can resemble their new sex as much as they would ideally like. But it can be good enough. It can support improved health outcomes for some individuals. It is also a solution that most of society (and it’s main organisations) seems to accept. Hence pragmatic, not perfect, solution.

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SupermatchGame · 29/04/2018 23:47

No, feminist anger is the tone, and giving a shit about women is the shade.

You don't give a sh!t about women - otherwise you would listen to what they say instead of dismissing them as 'handmaidens' at every opportunity.

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AngryAttackKittens · 29/04/2018 23:48

italiangreyhound is just so lovely

She's a sweetheart! The fact that some TRAs still manage to pick a fight with her makes me wonder how they manage in day to day interactions. If you can't get along with someone who goes out of her way to see everyone's perspective...

LightofaSilveryMoon · 29/04/2018 23:50

Really, really good illustration of why women on this site are campaigning so strongly for the rights of women and girls.

Because when we women say No, men can't be women, they cannot appropriate women's spaces, we do not allow it - the abuse comes thick and fast.

Trousersdontmakemeaman · 29/04/2018 23:50

I'm going to pick a song.

Juzza12 · 29/04/2018 23:51

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UpstartCrow · 29/04/2018 23:51

Trousersdontmakemeaman is it 'blankety blank'?

Trousersdontmakemeaman · 29/04/2018 23:54

I was so bored I forgot.

Trousersdontmakemeaman · 29/04/2018 23:55
UpstartCrow · 29/04/2018 23:56

Then I suggest 'we shall not be moved''.

SupermatchGame · 29/04/2018 23:57

Because your posts aren't interesting enough to get reported is my guess,

Or is it because I don't post messages that violate these terms:

  • No personal attacks
  • No posts that break the law
  • No trolling, misleading or deliberately inflammatory behaviour
  • No trollhunting
  • No spamming

But do you?

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SupermatchGame · 29/04/2018 23:58

Yay it's the Trousers radio show!

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Italiangreyhound · 30/04/2018 00:01

Rufustheconstantreindeer, Ereshkigal and AngryAttackKittens Thank you. Thanks

@SupermatchGame "Italian - thanks for asking but I have posted my views a lot really clearly I think. I can post them again..."

OK I will take a look tomorrow. I really do have some work to do so I will need to go now and do it!

I genuinely think debate and discussion helps. I hope we will find an accommodation that will work for everyone or at least work for the majority of people and put safety first. I do genuinely think safe third spaces will be it. Anyway, I will join you tomorrow.

Night all.

AnitaLovesVictor · 30/04/2018 00:02

Because when we women say No, men can't be women, they cannot appropriate women's spaces, we do not allow it - the abuse comes thick and fast.

Yes. Women saying NO to men, and being able and allowed to say NO to men is a central tenet of feminism. We are saying NO - men cannot be women. It is as simple as that. Get back in your lane.

AnitaLovesVictor · 30/04/2018 00:03

Love Kirsty MacColl btw - great song.

AngryAttackKittens · 30/04/2018 00:04

Break the law? Not sure how a post on Mumsnet would do that...

You're definitely posting personal attacks in this thread, Supermatch, but as I said, women on the GC side of the debate generally don't report posts for petty reasons in the hopes of silencing the other side's perspective, because we don't have to. The more people who get to see both sets of arguments the better as far as I'm concerned.

Trousersdontmakemeaman · 30/04/2018 00:05
Trousersdontmakemeaman · 30/04/2018 00:08
AnitaLovesVictor · 30/04/2018 00:09

Trousers! That is right up there with my favourite songs of all time.

Trousersdontmakemeaman · 30/04/2018 00:10

Steve Harley, love the video, I'm 15 again.

AngryAttackKittens · 30/04/2018 00:12

Maybe we should start reporting things like Supermatch's ridiculous bile comment above? I'd rather not stoop to that level, but strategically speaking maybe we should. Dunno, thoughts?

Trousersdontmakemeaman · 30/04/2018 00:13

I have.

Trousersdontmakemeaman · 30/04/2018 00:14

It's all too beautiful.

AngryAttackKittens · 30/04/2018 00:21

Love that song!

AnitaLovesVictor · 30/04/2018 00:34

This is the end... of women's rights. This song - because a) Jim Morrison is an absolute god and b) because we will fight this. We fight on. Men cannot be women. I'm sure there are better songs than this, but this has been going through my head all night.

AnitaLovesVictor · 30/04/2018 00:36

And "Wake Up!!"

Women everywhere. Our rights, our very existence are under threat.