It’s interesting, to look at this via a view of the hierarchy of the patriarchy. You’ve got the straight blokes at the top (I won’t complicate it with race and class but those feature too), followed by the gay blokes, followed by the trans identified males.
We have a society that has accepted homosexual males (for the most part, or at least likes to be seen as accepting them) and likes to parade around their views as an indication of how tolerant and open those at the top (the straight blokes) are. We have the gay bloke who has kinda lumped himself in with the trans identified males but sees himself as a bit elevated, and so wants to show how tolerant and open he is by offering the foot up to the trans identified males.
At no point do any of them actually consider the women (straight, gay, or trans identified). Funny that. It’s always about the other men.
Tom lost my interest when he decided women’s bodies can be rented for his personal whim. What an utterly self-entitled prat.