you know when you don't know if you should laugh or cry? I think mumsnet has done amazing in allowing a platform for women to discuss this issue. I think it needs toned down, not because the issue isn't relevant, but because people are becoming so frustrated they are angry? angry words are no good. So far in my life ive only ever encountered three trans people, all MTF, two had major issues and the other I'm yet to find out. I'm weary for women's rights, but at the same time I recognise humanity is not black and white. Sex is binary though, with a tiny percentage of exceptions. I get pissed off when clueless men/boys claim to be women as they don't have a clue, especially as when I'm in pain with a period, or taking care of my kids when their dad just left all responsibility and that's socially acceptable, but a part of me feels sorry for them as masculine expectations are ridiculous. Why didn't a mens movement to destroy stereotypes evolve when feminism did, why are we always expected to lead the way for change? we carry them, we wipe their arses, we feed them, we teach them to be men, as their fathers have been working or absent, why do they not take responsibility for themselves? why do they need babied and protected by us? why do trans women feel protected by our toilets and spaces? do they have mummy issues? why do women have to sort everything out, I'm bored of this, I really am, grow the fuck up men, tell men yourselves, "I'm not a fighter, I like pink, I want to dance and do crafts and other things" stop pretending to be us, I will never believe anybody feels like a woman until they suffer cramps, or childbirth or miscarriage or that feeling you might be pregnant and its your own responsibility, I'm really confused by all of this, but can see the political agenda and funding behind it, ffs